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I feel nothing not to abort BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
16th Apr '12

Is it Wong i feel nothing now that im going to abort this baby at 7 weeks?
Dont get me wrong to make this choice it killed and i cried for a week but now i feel happy and i just want to get it over and done with to get back on with my life. When i think about keeping it i feel nothing but stress.

Stu Padasso 2 kids; Henderson, Nevada 14638 posts
16th Apr '12

Not wrong at all. I was a little bit further along than you were when I had my abortion and I felt the same way you do. I just wanted it to be over with.

Tavi 1 child; Washington 24396 posts
16th Apr '12

You'll be fine. I imagine it would be normal. I've never had one, but thinking if I ever got pregnant again...yea, I'd probably feel the same way.



It's probably the right decision for you if you feel happy to get it done and over with. It's when you're bouncing back and forth when you should spend more time trying to decide, but you sound ready. Good luck :)

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50789 posts
status 16th Apr '12

Honestly I hope if I ever would get an abortion i would have a short grieving period then be back to normal life.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
16th Apr '12

I have been beating myself up about it for over a week and now after my first appt i feel at peace with my choice that it right all round thanks girls

Stu Padasso 2 kids; Henderson, Nevada 14638 posts
16th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" I have been beating myself up about it for over a week and now after my first appt i feel at peace with my choice that it right all round thanks girls"


Good luck <3 Wishing you a speedy recovery.

dream 2 kids; Linz, Ob, Austria 59797 posts
16th Apr '12

well it hasn't happened yet, so you still might have some grieving to go through after the process is over. However, if you feel at peace with the decision you've made, then I think that is a good sign that it is the right decision for you at this time. Not everyone will feel that way, but it certainly doesn't make you a monster.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50789 posts
status 16th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I have been beating myself up about it for over a week and now after my first appt i feel at peace with my choice that it right all round thanks girls"</blockquote>




Good luck :)

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
16th Apr '12

If anything this should just let you know that you are making the right decision. Yes, it may have been a hard one to make but you are ready to get this in the past and get back to your regular life.

Candy Claira'S mommy 1 child; Virginia Beach, Virginia 520 posts
16th Apr '12
Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" If anything this should just let you know that you are making the right decision. Yes, it may have been a hard one to make but you are ready to get this in the past and get back to your regular life."


:!: this!



You got guts girl! I am 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby and it is stressing thinking of all the responsibility I will be facing upon her arrival, so I understand how you feel.
Let me tell you I am glad to see that at least you are convinced that this is the right choice for you and your baby. Good luck with recovery.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
16th Apr '12

Well i have 3 kids already so it sucks but i have to think about them first as bad as this may sound :(:(

Tavi 1 child; Washington 24396 posts
16th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" Well i have 3 kids already so it sucks but i have to think about them first as bad as this may sound :(:("


Doesn't sound bad at all. I'd do the same thing if it came down to being able to care for my already alive child.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
16th Apr '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" Well i have 3 kids already so it sucks but i have to think about them first as bad as this may sound :(:("


That doesn't sound bad at all. The children you already have should come first.

user banned 48 kids; Brookfield, Wisconsin 7488 posts
16th Apr '12

No, not at all honey.



You've made your choice, and it's not an easy one, but it is your choice. I was in this position a few months ago. It was a hard choice to make, but I'm glad I made it. I really am.



I hope it all goes well. ((hugs))

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
16th Apr '12

Sometime i do feel a bit shit!!! because its about money but 4 kids and no money = homeless or barely living. But thanks girls some people just made me feel like i was being selfish