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Cast Your Vote:

    • Abort -- Votes: 49
    • Adopt -- Votes: 26
Wiggity Wack 1 child; Connecticut 10780 posts
17th Apr '12

Abort, without question.

* anonymous * 17 kids; New York, New York 14277 posts
17th Apr '12

I'd abort.



Instantly. In fact, when I found myself in that situation, it's exactly what I did.

BoOm French Toast 2 kids; Massachusetts 11220 posts
17th Apr '12

Abortion. I would never choose adoption.

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
17th Apr '12

I would have an abortion. I could never give birth to a baby that I do not intend to keep when I already have two children.

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
17th Apr '12

Abort. I couldn't go through a pregnancy and not keep it- I couldn't even imagine what I'd tell my kids.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
17th Apr '12

It would upset me, but I would have an abortion.
Right now I am quite overweight and I just couldn't see myself carrying a healthy child to term without doing real damage to my body.

Gold 2 kids; Somewhere under Wonderland, VA, United States 40116 posts
status 17th Apr '12

Abort.

4j's 2 kids; Japan 1587 posts
17th Apr '12

If there was absolutely no way i could keep him or her, i would adopt. It would be a horrible and sad situation to have to give up a child, but there are alot of people out there wanting kids and cant have any of their own. i wouldnt abort.

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
17th Apr '12
Quoting JessicaNjesse:" If there was absolutely no way i could keep him or her, i would adopt. It would be a horrible and sad ... [snip!] ... have to give up a child, but there are alot of people out there wanting kids and cant have any of their own. i wouldnt abort."


They could adopt a child out of foster care, though. Those kids need love too, and nobody wants them because they all want newborns.



C.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27169 posts
17th Apr '12

I've done it before... abort. I don't regret it. I loved my child and that's why I aborted.

4j's 2 kids; Japan 1587 posts
17th Apr '12

Quoting God:" They could adopt a child out of foster care, though. Those kids need love too, and nobody wants them because they all want newborns. C.



unfortunatly very true in most cases. I still wouldnt abort. i would most definitely put the baby up for adoption. only if i had to though. its sad to even think about, even though its a hypothetical situation :(

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
17th Apr '12

Adoption, it's something my DH and I have talked about.

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
17th Apr '12
Quoting JessicaNjesse:" unfortunatly very true in most cases. I still wouldnt abort. i would most definitely put the baby up ... [snip!] ... put the baby up for adoption. only if i had to though. its sad to even think about, even though its a hypothetical situation :("


Oh sure, you would have to do what's best for you. I just don't think those other people should factor in.



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D+S+G= ♥ 1 child; Alaska 29968 posts
17th Apr '12

Abort. My mother was adopted & even though she loves her adoptive mother & she loves my mother etc etc my mom has always had that yearning to meet her real parents & have a relationship with them. I am a very attached individual when it comes to children & going through a pregnancy then just handing off the kid to someone I barely know would cause me to go into a deep depression & possibly commit suicide.

Kea O_O 4 kids; British Columbia 1480 posts
17th Apr '12

I'd give it up for adoption probably to someone I know who can't have kids, because I don't feel a strong attachment to fetuses while they are inside of me, I have no problem with abortions but my parents would disown me