Why Hi, I'm Newbie Due July 20; Kansas, Alabama 124 posts
17th Apr '12

Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting pregnant and staying pregnant?



I just had a miscarriage and I see lots of girls on here and irl who are pregnant that do not understand how lucky they are and they do not deserve it



i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth

3M'smom 3 kids; Illinois 28879 posts
17th Apr '12
Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"


Harsh.

Dev ♥ M&M 2 kids; Slovakia 2755 posts
17th Apr '12

Everything happens for a reason. I'm sorry for your loss.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
17th Apr '12

I'm sorry you're upset, but I honestly don't think you can judge who should or should not have children.

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
17th Apr '12

You have my condolences on your loss.



Still, don't talk shit about the women on here, you're not in their shoes any more than they're in yours. Grief does not give you a right to just say a bunch of random women on here don't deserve a kid, and especially not less than you do.



C.

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8736 posts
17th Apr '12

Why don't they deserve their pregnancies and their babies? :?

D+S+G= ♥ 1 child; Alaska 29968 posts
17th Apr '12

I'm sorry for your loss but who are you to decide if someone doesn't deserve it? Especially if you don't know them. I know this hurts & you are upset but that's not fair to others.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
17th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:</b>" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"</blockquote>




I understand this is in suffering & loss and that you are entitled to feel angry m hurt etc



But wow. Wo are you to judge who deserves to be pregnant and who doesn't?

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
17th Apr '12

I'm sorry for your loss, but seriously you have no right to say who should and shouldn't give birth.

AmandaBee123 18 kids; Oak Island, North Carolina 5771 posts
17th Apr '12
Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"

Who are you to determine who is deserving of a baby and who is not?

Monica. 2 kids; Owego, New York 32751 posts
17th Apr '12

I'm sorry for your loss.




But.. come on. Really?

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
17th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hi, I'm Newbie:</b>" Im bawling right now .. why does it seem like everyone who should not be pregnant has no issue getting ... [snip!] ... how lucky they are and they do not deserve it i hate to wish miscarriage on people but some do not need to give birth"</blockquote>




Can't contest to women oon here because u don't know them irl

Dev ♥ M&M 2 kids; Slovakia 2755 posts
17th Apr '12
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" I'm sorry for your loss, but seriously you have no right to say who should and shouldn't give birth."

:!:

[Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker] ; 18 kids; noneya, TN, United States 3245 posts
17th Apr '12

I was going to offer my deepest condolences...until I hit that last line. What a cunty thing to say.

Tavi 1 child; Washington 24396 posts
17th Apr '12

Just because you're having a hard time with staying pregnant doesn't mean everyone else needs to stop having babies.



I'm sorry you had a miscarriage. It's rough, and it hurts, I know. But who are you to say someone shouldn't have a baby?