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ugh! stupid people(just spilling out my feelings) momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
19th Apr '12

Okay this is mainly a rant but oh how i HATE stupid people! If you have nobody( doctor wont answer my questions and nobody else i know have answers) and im trying to figure out something to keep my baby healthy then how the hell does being poor and not knowing everything make a bad mother and mean all i do is make excuses!?!? I get my state has a crappy ER, my doctor sucks, and i dont have a way to go somewhere else but like i said I DONT KNOW! Its why im asking moms who know more for advice... so i dont get it... ugh i hate this stupid state and stupid people! I dont care that im 17 im hella sure im better then a mother who is doing drugs or beating and killing their kids... i love my daughter no matter what age i am ... ugh sorry yall just had to get that out ...

Mummy :) 1 child; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 997 posts
19th Apr '12

I don't get what you are saying?

Jessica- Mom of 4 52 kids; Topeka, Kansas 4000 posts
19th Apr '12
Quoting Mummy :):" I don't get what you are saying?"

Me either!!!

♥ Letters to Alice 1 child; Medford, Minnesota 3788 posts
19th Apr '12

Sweetie, there are a lot of teen moms who are GREAT mothers. Despite the fact my cousin lets her child get away with too much - she's only one but still - she's a great mom! She was definitely made to be a mom, she's excellent. Don't let people get you down just because you are young. It's ridiculous. My mom was 16 when she had me, and she was/is a great mom.



I don't know what questions you have and what you're seeking, but keep seeking it. You will find your answers.

♥ Letters to Alice 1 child; Medford, Minnesota 3788 posts
19th Apr '12
Quoting Jessica- Mom of 4:" Me either!!!"


she's saying that she has questions and nobody is answering them! People are ignoring her, or telling her because she's poor she's a bad mom.

Mummy :) 1 child; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 997 posts
19th Apr '12
Quoting ♥ Letters to Alice:" she's saying that she has questions and nobody is answering them! People are ignoring her, or telling her because she's poor she's a bad mom. "

Ahh ok i see. What questions do you have i might be able to help. I am a young mum myself.

★Date311161.69 Due August 31 (boy); TTC since Sep 2012; 1 child; Pennsylvania 4003 posts
19th Apr '12

What are your questions? Maybe we'll be able to help. :D

Traci Powell 2 kids; South Carolina 2019 posts
19th Apr '12

She's just having a b***h fit. We all have em. Anyways..maybe you could find a mama on baby gaga in your area or close that yould like to answer questions. Idk if you have fb but if you do u can add me ill answer questions. I have a 5 yr old and had her at 17

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
19th Apr '12
Quoting KitKat&Jap:" What are your questions? Maybe we'll be able to help. :D"


:!:

momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
19th Apr '12

Just tired of being called a bad mom cuz of my age n the doctors in the area i live... my doctor sucks so just wanted advice but people making me feel like BS :/ i feel n hurt my ribs( dont think its broke, just bruised and knotted) but my ER wants x-rays so i asked some other moms if pains as my baby is moving is normal after bruising or should i be scared... my belly just gets hard, shootin pains, and just not something im used to and this is my first kid.. but being told im a bad mom for trying to find out if its normal is crappy

♥ Letters to Alice 1 child; Medford, Minnesota 3788 posts
19th Apr '12

Seriously, you need to go to another doctor. Just when you have checkups, see a random doctor, see if you like that one more.

momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
19th Apr '12

Im 29 weeks is it to late to switch? And how would i switch my doctor if so cause i dont know anything bout that ?

♥ Letters to Alice 1 child; Medford, Minnesota 3788 posts
19th Apr '12

It is never too late to switch. It's your body, your baby, your pregnancy. All you do is call your clinic and make an appointment with a different doctor, or call a different clinic and ask for an obgyn that's available to meet with you. Tell them you are seeking a new one.

momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
19th Apr '12

Okay thank you i will look into that for sure!

Chels (+1) TTC since Dec 2013; 1 child; Biddeford, Maine 524 posts
20th Apr '12
Quoting Skye's momma:" Okay this is mainly a rant but oh how i HATE stupid people! If you have nobody( doctor wont answer my ... [snip!] ... or beating and killing their kids... i love my daughter no matter what age i am ... ugh sorry yall just had to get that out ..."

hun dont let people get to you being a teen mom dont mean shit all it means its you have to try that much harder. age has nothing to do with being a good mom.



dont let people get to you stress is not good for you or your baby.. like i said before if you need advise or someone to talk to you can always message me