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Nancy Botwin 2 kids; Pennsylvania 2182 posts
21st Apr '12
Quoting phuqthishouse44:" i smoke weed to deal with stress."

Lots of people smoke weed. It doesn't solve problems. But it definitely works better than any medication in my opinion.

Logan&Lilly's Mommy Due June 30; 2 kids; Virginia 2671 posts
status 21st Apr '12
Quoting phuqthishouse44:" btw. IM NOT A MAMA. IM A DADA. im pretty sure the site didnt say only moms so yea that just happened."

You really need to get professional help! Killing yourself isnt going to solve anything and smoking weed doesnt always help.

Cracked out June Cleaver 1 child; Springfield, Oregon 61877 posts
21st Apr '12
Quoting phuqthishouse44:" btw. IM NOT A MAMA. IM A DADA. im pretty sure the site didnt say only moms so yea that just happened."


Well how were we to know huh?

PurpleDurple 1 child; 41119 posts
21st Apr '12
Quoting phuqthishouse44:" i smoke weed to deal with stress."


Clearly that does not help.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
21st Apr '12

It is okay to feel overwhelmed. We all feel that way sometimes because being a mom (edit: or dad) is hard work for everyone (not even just teens.) But when you start feeling like you want to die or kill yourself, it might be a good time to talk to a professional about meds, counseling, etc.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 14977 posts
status 21st Apr '12
Quoting phuqthishouse44:" btw. IM NOT A MAMA. IM A DADA. im pretty sure the site didnt say only moms so yea that just happened."

It doesn't matter if you're male or female. You need some professional help. Weed obviously isn't helping so you need to try a new approach.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
21st Apr '12
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" It doesn't matter if you're male or female. You need some professional help. Weed obviously isn't helping so you need to try a new approach."


:!:

Cracked out June Cleaver 1 child; Springfield, Oregon 61877 posts
21st Apr '12

I hope you can find a way to deal with your stress and anger without taking it out on your child

347534y5h37y345gt354y 1 child; New Jersey 168 posts
21st Apr '12

i dont take meds in which i dont know what the hell is in them, example: anti-depressants. ive already tried them 4 times for a while and they didnt work BECAUSE MY PROBLEMS WERE STILL THERE! tired of all these fkin doctors n shit tryin to tell me what to take, and then i get a bill in the mail to really "sell" their product.

Logan&Lilly's Mommy Due June 30; 2 kids; Virginia 2671 posts
status 21st Apr '12
Quoting Shadowmanexists:" i dont take meds in which i dont know what the hell is in them, example: anti-depressants. ive already ... [snip!] ... all these fkin doctors n shit tryin to tell me what to take, and then i get a bill in the mail to really "sell" their product. "

You need to get some kind of help acting like this around you child isnt good at all.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
21st Apr '12
Quoting Shadowmanexists:" i dont take meds in which i dont know what the hell is in them, example: anti-depressants. ive already ... [snip!] ... all these fkin doctors n shit tryin to tell me what to take, and then i get a bill in the mail to really "sell" their product. "


you don't have to take anti-depressants, but you should tell someone that you are having suicidal thoughts. You problems don't just go away unless you put in the effort to fix them and change things. Think about the things that need to happen in order for you to feel better....



Your parents think you fucked up, what are you doing to show them you can be repsonsible and take care of your child?
You don't want you ex living with you, what steps can you take to help her into a new place or get a place of your own.
You find your daughter overbearing(maybe overwhelming), have you considered some parenting classes to learn to cope and help her better.
It takes effort to make life work.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
21st Apr '12
Quoting Shadowmanexists:" i dont take meds in which i dont know what the hell is in them, example: anti-depressants. ive already ... [snip!] ... all these fkin doctors n shit tryin to tell me what to take, and then i get a bill in the mail to really "sell" their product. "


i think it's time to man up and cope with your problems. smoking pot is fine if it actually helps, but it's only going to carry you half way. you need to do the rest. be a good father and get some counseling, if you hate the mother of your child, then tell her to move in with her own parents, and be there for your little girl. however, you are being childish. it does not matter if you are a teenager, you are a FATHER. you left behind your teenage years the second your girlfriend decided to keep the baby.



i get that you are depressed, but if you're going to just cry about it and not be proactive then you aren't going to get a bunch of sympathy.

Adriana'sMombie 1 child; Quakertown, Pennsylvania 2107 posts
21st Apr '12

wow..professional help. or marijuana (:
Hope you can find away to deal with your stress!

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
21st Apr '12

Cyanide pills?



Good luck

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 14977 posts
status 21st Apr '12
Quoting Shadowmanexists:" i dont take meds in which i dont know what the hell is in them, example: anti-depressants. ive already ... [snip!] ... all these fkin doctors n shit tryin to tell me what to take, and then i get a bill in the mail to really "sell" their product. "

The meds aren't meant to solve your problems. They're meant to make you feel a little happier so you can deal with shit on your own.




For example, Zoloft makes you produce more serotonin, which is your brain's happy juice.



Nobody can change your situation but you.



Stop bitching, take a step back and analyze your situation. What would make you happy? What do YOU need to do to accomplish that? Now make it happen. Sitting down feeling sorry for yourself will accomplish nothing.



Go get motivated and make yourself happy.