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what do you think? momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
Apr 23rd '12

If a man/woman cheats on his/her girlfriend/ boyfriend, wife/husband, or whatever and they choose to forgive each other and move on together does the other one cheating later in life give justice to the whole thing?

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23736 posts
Apr 23rd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Skye's momma:</b>" If a man/woman cheats on his/her girlfriend/ boyfriend, wife/husband, or whatever and they choose to ... [snip!] ... choose to forgive each other and move on together does the other one cheating later in life give justice to the whole thing?"</blockquote>




Hell no

sueforizzle 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Panama City Beach, Florida 2452 posts
Apr 23rd '12
Quoting Skye's momma:" If a man/woman cheats on his/her girlfriend/ boyfriend, wife/husband, or whatever and they choose to ... [snip!] ... choose to forgive each other and move on together does the other one cheating later in life give justice to the whole thing?"


No. As the old saying goes..."An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind"

...... lima, OH, United States 485 posts
Apr 23rd '12

of course not. if that were the case every cheater who gets back with their cheaty would just say "ok i love you, im forgiven, now go screw someone so we can get on with our lives" or they will be wondering the rest of their life if they will be cheated on, and expect it. you forgive to move on, thats the whole point.

Mama of three babes 3 kids; New York 1257 posts
Apr 23rd '12
Quoting ~~Lmnop~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Skye's momma:</b>" If a man/woman cheats on his/her girlfriend/ ... [snip!] ... move on together does the other one cheating later in life give justice to the whole thing?"</blockquote> Hell no"


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Two wrongs do not make a right! It is only going to damage the relationship further.



SpidermansMommy 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Ohio 6236 posts
Apr 23rd '12

No. IMO you can't have a relationship without trust, and a relationship where someone cheats to get back for a past indiscretion is not very trustworthy. Two wrongs don't make a right, as they say....

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
Apr 23rd '12

Silly rabbit!

momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
Apr 23rd '12

Thanks everybody:) i forgave along time ago n have moved on and although it still hurts i dont think being told i should cheat on my boyfriend is the answer but men i know are blind to see that two wrongs wont fix anything...

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Apr 23rd '12

I think it may help the person who was cheated on to get over it, but no, doesnt make it right....especially after years have gone by

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Falkland Islands (Malvinas) 9195 posts
status Apr 23rd '12
Quoting sueforizzle:" No. As the old saying goes..."An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind""


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momma of an angel Due July 5 (girl); Arkansas 762 posts
Apr 23rd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shannonsfirst:</b>" I think it may help the person who was cheated on to get over it, but no, doesnt make it right....especially after years have gone by"</blockquote>




Thats my thinking about the whole thing long story short a year ago my bf cheated and it still kinda hurts so i will say something and make a joke from it but my bf only says go find somebody if its gonna make things better but i forgave him the night i found out and now i have started my family with him and i love him but he dont get i am faithful to him and just him