ℓauren 1 child; Alabama 149 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting Emma&Zack's mom!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℓauren:</b>" Work, actually. I genuinely thought he was ... [snip!] ... how you two get along. At least he is at a nice mature age. Younger men can be so immature and looking for things you may not."

Very much so! Before him, I dated a 23 year old and a 20 year old. They both were scumbags. Couldn't get their lives together and didn't know how to treat a woman. And before them, I dated a man in his later twenties for two years. He had control issues.



My SO and I have a great time together. We're both into cars, 80s music, outdoor activities, etc.

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
25th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting alyju:</b>" Yeah thats what I thought too. In the United States its not that they have to be 18 anymore :roll::roll: ... [snip!] ... :roll::roll: As long as the girl/boy is 16 and has that teenagers consent its legal. I think it's absolutely ridiculous. "</blockquote>




The age of consent in some states is not 16. Like in virginia it's 18 and you HAVE to have parental consent to marry if youre younger. Other then that I'd they we're living in Virginia he could be in jail right now, that is if someone were to report their relationship.

AlyShy 2 kids; Rhode Island 2302 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting Aribean:" <blockquote><b>Quoting alyju:</b>" Yeah thats what I thought too. In the United States ... [snip!] ... that I'd they we're living in Virginia he could be in jail right now, that is if someone were to report their relationship."


I was told that in the United States recently it's not 18 years old anymore to be legal. At the age 16 they can have consensual sexual intercourse. The marriage thing still applies with having to get permission



if its not true and Virginia it's illegal. Im moving to Virginia

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
25th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting alyju:</b>" I was told that in the United States recently it's not 18 years old anymore to be legal. At the age ... [snip!] ... marriage thing still applies with having to get permission if its not true and Virginia it's illegal. Im moving to Virginia "</blockquote>




No that's not true at all. It goes by state. Each state has their own set of laws. So in Mississippi the age of consent can be like 14-15 and Virginia 18...
Anything under the age of consent have to get written permission to marry but if there is a sexual relationship and someone reports the offender then they can get arrested jailed and fined.
They don't play around with stuff like that because it's basically pedophilia under their guidelines no matter how much the girl or guy say they wanted to have sex with their partner.

Jessy Martin Due June 2; New Brunswick 13 posts
25th Apr '12

I'm 18 and he is 22. We're 4 years and a month apart :)

Charlie's Mum 23-1-12 1 child; Australia 573 posts
26th Apr '12

I was 18 he was 20

L.A.W.IsTheName 2 kids; Ohio 1749 posts
26th Apr '12

A I little more than a year and a half... SO turned 21 apr 21 I turn 20 aug 5

Mommy.x3 ❤ +1 Due March 20; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Windsor, Ontario 12913 posts
26th Apr '12

2 years!

July2012 1 child; Council Bluffs, Iowa 119 posts
26th Apr '12
Quoting kαγℓα:" What's the age difference between you and your baby's dad? I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 28."


i'm 17 and my baby's dad/ s.o. is 20 all together though it's 3 years and 1 month

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74689 posts
26th Apr '12
Quoting alyju:" Yeah thats what I thought too. In the United States its not that they have to be 18 anymore :roll::roll: ... [snip!] ... :roll::roll: As long as the girl/boy is 16 and has that teenagers consent its legal. I think it's absolutely ridiculous. "


Why?

omdjt 3 kids; Findlay, Ohio 1238 posts
26th Apr '12

When I had my first at 17, I was 17 and he was 18. I'm no longer a teen mom, because I'm twenty, but this time my baby daddy is 30. So 10 years difference.

AlyShy 2 kids; Rhode Island 2302 posts
26th Apr '12
Quoting bia.:" Why?"


Cause I wouldn't feel comfortable if my daughter was 16 and was having a relationship with a 40 year old man

Maria Perez Recinos Due June 10 (girl); 1 child; Oakland, California 1 posts
26th Apr '12

when I got pregnant the first time I was 14 and he was 19.
this time around I was 15 and he is 20. so a 5 year difference.

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
26th Apr '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Maria Perez Recinos:</b>" when I got pregnant the first time I was 14 and he was 19. this time around I was 15 and he is 20. so a 5 year difference."</blockquote>




... We're neighbors lol...

nutmeg. California 22281 posts
26th Apr '12

I was 19 and my (now) husband was 29.