i told the adoptive parents user banned
25th Apr '12

i did it over the phone. i told my mom who threatened to tell them if i didn't so i did. i felt like i ripped that poor lady's heart out of her chest. i can't stop crying!! but a huge weight has been lifted off my chest. they didnt even say anything. they just hung up so i dont know if i'm supposed to leave the apartment or anything about any money having to be paid back. i locked the front door and the back door and closed every window just in case they try anything. my boyfriend doesnt even understand he's sleeping while im going through a very difficult time. we might have to move to another state to live with his mom cuz my mom is not goin to take us in but everything is paid for at the doctor here so idk what where were goin to live until Lyric gets here. all i know is i feel lighter knowin that they know

~Ba.zin.ga~ Due December 4 (girl); 1 child; Under your bed, OO, United States 3975 posts
25th Apr '12

What did you tell them?

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
25th Apr '12

Well it's good you told them but gtfo of the apartment they paid for. I also hope they sue you for every penny.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 74779 posts
25th Apr '12

Why would they try anything? :? You should start looking for a home for you and your child, you obviously won't be staying there.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
25th Apr '12

Um, you should move out..

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
25th Apr '12

You will have to pay everything back. But don't worry about that right now. Just make sure you and your family are safe and have somewhere to go.

Hannah & Haylee's Mommy! 18 kids; Riverview, Florida 1995 posts
25th Apr '12

the people there were going to adopt your baby are paying for you to live in an apartment? idk how that works but im pretty sure you have to compensate them. Happy for you that you decided to keep your baby, its very hard and i wouldn't be able to do it. Congrats. I feel really bad for the couple tho :(

*Audree* 18 kids; Asotin, Washington 2345 posts
25th Apr '12

locking the doors and hiding in the apartment they are paying for isnt going to do much. start packing now.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
25th Apr '12

It's good that you told them but you need to stop using the resources that they payed for.They were paying for those things because you were giving them a child, you changed your mind so time to grow up and fend for yourself. I hope they sue you for the money that they already put into this.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 17269 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting ... :/ ...:" Well it's good you told them but gtfo of the apartment they paid for. I also hope they sue you for every penny."


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Even if they don't sue you, you need to pay them back the money they have given you so far. They are probably heart broken and will be for a long while. Why did you promise them something when you werent sure you would do it or not?

GiannasMomma 1 child; Illinois 5716 posts
25th Apr '12

Umm did you think about how you're going to pay them? Wtf..

G and Goob's momma 34 kids; Green Cove Springs, Florida 10267 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" :!: Even if they don't sue you, you need to pay them back the money they have given you so far. They ... [snip!] ... heart broken and will be for a long while. Why did you promise them something when you werent sure you would do it or not?"


:!: I agree

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting ... :/ ...:" Well it's good you told them but gtfo of the apartment they paid for. I also hope they sue you for every penny."


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Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" It's good that you told them but you need to stop using the resources that they payed for.They were paying ... [snip!] ... changed your mind so time to grow up and fend for yourself. I hope they sue you for the money that they already put into this. "


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My thoughts exactly. Did you just back out of the adoption or did you not even have intentions of going through with it to begin with?

GiannasMomma 1 child; Illinois 5716 posts
25th Apr '12

And sounds like a great start for your baby. You don't even know where you're going to live now. :roll: