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ccccccc ♥LJ Due March 17; 1 child; Ohio 4468 posts
25th Apr '12
iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
25th Apr '12

I'm so sorry :(

M♥MMY to 3 GIRLS:) Due October 22 (girl); 2 kids; California 1916 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting ♥LJ:" phone rang while I was laying in bed.. I reach over to answer. Text from "Jeff A" I start flipping through ... [snip!] ... he started sleepign on the couch, and staying out all night at "bars" Where do I go from here? Do I confront him? ugh... "


Hell yea I would confront him!

Amber Mosher 1 child; Rochelle, Illinois 1860 posts
25th Apr '12

IMHO, I would confront him. Nothing is gained by keeping secrets.

proudmom97 Due April 30 (boy); 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 752 posts
25th Apr '12

I would confront mine. That's just me though. There's no way I could leave that alone.

saageex3 1 child; New York 5798 posts
25th Apr '12

Tell him that you know. At this point, does it matter that you looked in his phone? You found enough evidence that he is talking to someone else. I would just tell him straight up that you seen the text.

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 24340 posts
25th Apr '12

Definitely confront him, but I recommend saving the number somewhere first just in case he has a serious bout of denial. You need to be able to confirm. Cheaters always have excuses.



Just try to go into it as calmly as you can, non-confrontational and encourage him to be truthful with you.

[a❤ k&m] 2 kids; Iowa 6968 posts
25th Apr '12

:( I'm so sorry.
Get your head on straight and confront him, this is not right :? :(

♥LJ Due March 17; 1 child; Ohio 4468 posts
25th Apr '12

I left and am at my moms.
Took his phone with me.
:? I seriously just don't even know.

Baby Love ♥ Due July 20 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; New Zealand 474 posts
25th Apr '12

He'd already have no junk if it was my SO.

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
25th Apr '12

Or go for the BAM affect, and one day just not be there anymore.



Sorry mama, I know it's gotta hurt. I hope you do what you feel is best for you and LO(s).

Baby Love ♥ Due July 20 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; New Zealand 474 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting ♥LJ:" I left and am at my moms. Took his phone with me. :? I seriously just don't even know. "


:( I'm so sorry

user banned TTA since Sep 2007; 1 child; Kansas 16909 posts
25th Apr '12

How haven't you confronted him yet?



you are better than I.



I would text "Jeff" and ask when you can meet...

Tyler & Kyle's Mom 2 kids; Bellevue, Nebraska 9597 posts
25th Apr '12

That's how my ex was acting before I found out he was cheating. Stopped leaving his phone lay around wherever and started keeping it with him (even in the bathroom), started staying out all night at bars, and crashing at friends houses cuz he was too drunk to drive home. Almost 6 years together and neither of us went out, and when we did, it was together. So all of a sudden when he started doing all that shit, I got suspicious and found emails between him and her and then found out about their relationship. :( I'm sorry mama, I hope the same isn't true for you. But it sounds like it might be. PM me if you need to vent or anything.

eℓℓie☮ 1 child; North Carolina 2081 posts
25th Apr '12
Quoting Queen Of The Lions&hearts:" Hell yea I would confront him!"


:!:
I'm so sorry, dear. :(