Don't get an abortation if you want to keep it that baby wants to live im 15 and pregnent hun im keeping my baby if anything put it up for adoption dont abort it
<blockquote><b>Quoting ulove11:</b>" I just got pregnant over christmas. And I am not in a good place to have a baby really. I don't know ... [snip!] ... to expect. I thought for awhile I'd have a baby not I'm just lost on what to think. I have it scheduled next week... Advice?"</blockquote>
You would be better off in life to abort. Trust me.
its hard getting preg at a young age. i was 16 when i had my first and i wouldnt trade that for nothin in the world , he is the best thing in life that has happened to me. it was hard but i made it through it and finished school. you may not know who the father is but trust me you and can do it by yourself. you do loose all of the times you go out with your friends and do stuff but at the same time if your parents are fine with you keeping it then they can understand to sometime you need time for yourself and they could babysit for you. not giving you anything negative but i dont like it that people do it. my cousin did and i could kill her because they are other options out there as if other people who wants kids and cant have them or someone that would take care of it. they deserve to be here like you are. but its your decision on what you do. hope you make the best. if you need anyone to talk to im here.
Hey Hon. If you think abortion is the way to go, then you are the only one that can decide that. Think hard about it because it's something that you can't take back if you do decide to have one. I know 14 and pregnant is and will be rough. After all, you are young. But hon, this decision is up to you. If you do, you do. If you keep your baby, don't be afraid to ask for help because there are people out there that can help you. If you can't do either, there is always the option of adoption. Some people are even willing to have a open adoption with you so that you get to see pics of the baby. But always remember, you have the right to make a choice. It's all in your hands. But you do have to think fast on the decision, you dn't have much time. Don't keep or have an abortion just because its what someone else told you to do. Its up to YOU.
Quoting Mrs.Dani:" This makes me sad for OP. If she doesn't want the fetus and has to get stuck with it at such a young age... just makes me sad."
She wouldn't be stuck with it lol there is the choice of adoption and if she thinks it would be to hard do that they have ways to where the mother doesn't get to see it or hear it cry.
Quoting ulove11:" I am not as willing to talk since you're just judging... I wasn't trying to talk about getting more what ... [snip!] ... I think I'm fucking up already maybe they're right but it would be great to have a baby. I just don't know what's right really."
..even if you arent ready to have a baby there is someone out there that would love to have ur baby..i know thats probably hard to do too..but its always another option ;)