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Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16472 posts
status 7th Jan '13
Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:" You are so strong! My heart still breaks for you. I'm glad you know that IC is the issues so next time ... [snip!] ... slow she doesn't understand pregnancy/trying to get pregnant so she hasn't really been able to answer any of my questions. "


I'm so sorry. I know this must have been very tough for you, having regretted so much being an only child.

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Do they shove the KY up in your uterus? :roll: Sorry I couldn't help it. That sounds so silly!"


They can use preseed if that is the big concern, Gah, that is very very stupid of them!

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16472 posts
status 7th Jan '13
Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" I just dont even know where to START with the questions! I am having an elective c section due to nerve ... [snip!] ... the what ifs sorted out before I ever do anything, it drives DH nuts. I like making sure I have a back up plan at all times!"


Start writing down your questions now! (If you haven't already, course)

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" I'm so sorry. I know this must have been very tough for you, having regretted so much being an only child. "


**This**



My Mom only had 1 success pregnancy and she lost 2-3 babies, I know they buried my sister, but not the others.



They never did testing, as it was expensive in the early 80s, I wish she knew what the problem was, I think she felt bad for me being a only child, but looking back at it, I really never was bothered by it.

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2749 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" If you already O'ed the follicles ... [snip!] ... and she said that the ky kills sperm and it would be up to the re to decide whether to do it or not. So now I'm just waiting."


Do they mean the KY/u/s gel that they use on they on the u/s wand? If so, that's a straight up lie. I've had ultrasounds and labs every cycle including the one I got pregnant with Dahlia.



I think I'd see another RE. It doesn't sound like they're doing their job.

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Start writing down your questions now! (If you haven't already, course)"


Aside from the thyroid stuff, PCOS issues and nerve issues, I dont know what else to ask, aside from if he follows a birth plan, and is ok with doing a elective c section, because I am refusing to deliver vaginally, I am afraid of become incontinent after birth or worse!

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:" Do they mean the KY/u/s gel that they use on they on the u/s wand? If so, that's a straight up lie. ... [snip!] ... cycle including the one I got pregnant with Dahlia. I think I'd see another RE. It doesn't sound like they're doing their job."


That is good advice, even if there was a concern that was legit for KY, they can use preseed!

Ryans Mommy TTC #2 TTC since Jun 2009; 1 child; Madison, West Virginia 1878 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" Do they mean the KY/u/s gel that they use on they on the u/s wand? If so, that's a straight up lie. ... [snip!] ... cycle including the one I got pregnant with Dahlia. I think I'd see another RE. It doesn't sound like they're doing their job."</blockquote>




I don't know what to believe. He said that since I've been getting positive opks it's the perfect time to do this. So now I'm waiting to get this iui over with. I'm so nervous and sick to my stomach praying it's goin work this time. I'm sick of all of this.

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2749 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" I'm so sorry. I know this must have been very tough for you, having regretted so much being an only child. "


Honestly it was very hard. I was the only child my mom was able to have, that's a good thing though because my mom is very unstable. I still hate being an only child. All of my friends growing up are now best friends with their siblings, their kids play together. DH's sister is 32 and she won't be having any children. She's an MD and finishing up her residency at San Fran hospital, she's currently working in the trauma center. It's upsetting that Dahlia won't really have cousins.



I have two step-sisters and a stepbrother I hardly know them. I like my stepsister's two little boys.

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2749 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" Do they mean the KY/u/s gel that ... [snip!] ... to get this iui over with. I'm so nervous and sick to my stomach praying it's goin work this time. I'm sick of all of this."


**Baby Dust**



I hope this works and you get your BFP in two weeks!

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Ryans Mommy TTC #2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:</b>" Do they mean the KY/u/s gel that ... [snip!] ... to get this iui over with. I'm so nervous and sick to my stomach praying it's goin work this time. I'm sick of all of this."


I wish they would do a scan so you dont waste a IUI, I hope it all goes well and this is it for you!

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16472 posts
status 7th Jan '13
Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" Aside from the thyroid stuff, PCOS issues and nerve issues, I dont know what else to ask, aside from ... [snip!] ... doing a elective c section, because I am refusing to deliver vaginally, I am afraid of become incontinent after birth or worse!"


It probably has quite a bit to do with my AD/HD but when I get there I get all deer in the headlights and will inevitably forget some things if I don't write them down.

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2749 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" That is good advice, even if there was a concern that was legit for KY, they can use preseed!"


:!:



Exactly! My RE's office is pretty messed up but they always have preseed on hand!

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" It probably has quite a bit to do with my AD/HD but when I get there I get all deer in the headlights and will inevitably forget some things if I don't write them down. "


I take 60mg of adderall a day, I kinda am excited to see if nesting helps with it and keeping me focused!



I have 2 notebooks and 1 day planner, plus my Iphone calendar.



DH helps when he can, but with the amount of time I am home he doesnt do alot, and I dont like how it feels to not be taking the medicine, but I think I will hire a organizer to come over when I do get pregnant, since my Mother is a few states away and DH isnt home enough to do actual chores, and errands. I have taken Sudafed as a filler till I could get a refill on my adderall, but it doesnt last long enough and it has a diminishing effect if I have to do it long term.

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Spookshow Baby☠:" :!: Exactly! My RE's office is pretty messed up but they always have preseed on hand!"


Same here, every REs office seems to have that or mineral oil type stuff, as I believe there are alot of women who cant use KY.