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LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting CLC:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jace's Mom [TTC #2]:</b>" So I got my 7dpo progesterone levels ... [snip!] ... I'm not waiting anymore money! And maybe Ill get to keep my savings and just get pregnant. Remember we got to stay positive!"


True. I hope you have luck with your IUI! :) I am trying to stay positive. At least it wasn't another loss (although it almost feels that way). Our next cycle is hopefully only another week and a half away! Fresh start and moving on.

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" Before you give up, I would ask for closer monitoring and clomid or femara, IDK I have a hard time giving ... [snip!] ... limit type of person, I would rather toss everything at something then go half in. IF sucks already, why delay what we want?"


I am going to ask for monitoring and meds... my RE has already been notified of my horrible result. I have a feeling she'll do a trigger and monitoring. I'm not opposed to trying anything at this point.

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2748 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" Before you give up, I would ask for closer monitoring and clomid or femara, IDK I have a hard time giving ... [snip!] ... limit type of person, I would rather toss everything at something then go half in. IF sucks already, why delay what we want?"


I'm so sorry Lindsey. :(



I do agree, I'd ask for closer monitoring and meds. I already ovulated on my own when I did IUI but I was put on Clomid so we could time IUI better and so I'd have good eggs.



My RE always said anything over 3 indicates ovulation for sure. When I had my missed IUI in October I had my progesterone checked the day after I O'ed it was 1.something. Lindsey, was your progesterone checked in your previous cycles?

CLC 36 Weeks Due October 23 (twins); TTC since Jul 2009; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 1729 posts
17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jace's Mom [TTC #2]:</b>" True. I hope you have luck with your IUI! :) I am trying to stay positive. At least it wasn't another ... [snip!] ... (although it almost feels that way). Our next cycle is hopefully only another week and a half away! Fresh start and moving on. "</blockquote>



We decided not to even do an IUI. We're gonna BD bc my ovulation is delayed cause everything is going really slow so it will fall on the weekend when DH is home.

[Mrs. C] Due November 23; TTC since Dec 2010; Massachusetts 651 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Jace's Mom [TTC #2]:" I am going to ask for monitoring and meds... my RE has already been notified of my horrible result. ... [snip!] ... of my horrible result. I have a feeling she'll do a trigger and monitoring. I'm not opposed to trying anything at this point. "


Ugh I'm sorry Lindsey! You must be beyond frusturated. Hopefully you can get some answers from the RE soon.

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Vicarious✩[21 wks]:" I'm so sorry Lindsey. :( I do agree, I'd ask for closer monitoring and meds. I already ovulated on ... [snip!] ... progesterone checked the day after I O'ed it was 1.something. Lindsey, was your progesterone checked in your previous cycles?"


I emailed my RE and asked for meds and monitoring. I don't want to waste any more time, money, or sperm. I told her I'm willing to do anything, I just need her to order it.

I have had my progesterone checked previously. Once last summer (before any IUI) and it was like 11.2 and in January (after the tubal was conceived) and it was like 12.7.

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
18th Jun '13

So one of the nurses emailed back from my RE's office. She basically said that she has no reason to belive that I'm anovulatory and thinks it may have been an OPK error. Although it was a digital... it's 99% accurate. She basically said the risk versus benefits of starting clomid. She doesn't feel that I need it but it's up to me.
I think I'm going to email back and say yes... the risks are basically overstimulation and possible multifetal pregnancy. I'm going to ask for monitoring and a trigger, too... wish me luck!

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15965 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Jace's Mom [TTC #2]:" So one of the nurses emailed back from my RE's office. She basically said that she has no reason to belive ... [snip!] ... overstimulation and possible multifetal pregnancy. I'm going to ask for monitoring and a trigger, too... wish me luck!"


Good luck! I know I'd do it.

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Good luck! I know I'd do it."


I wrote in there that I accept the risks and side effects of clomid and a trigger. I'm okay if I wind up being hyper stim or have a multifetal pregnancy. Answer to my prayers is what it would be :)

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2748 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Jace's Mom [TTC #2]:" I emailed my RE and asked for meds and monitoring. I don't want to waste any more time, money, or ... [snip!] ... Once last summer (before any IUI) and it was like 11.2 and in January (after the tubal was conceived) and it was like 12.7."


I wouldn't want to waste anymore money or time either. Infertility is painful, having to wait for something you want more than anything kills you. Your progesterone is 'normal' but maybe ask for progesterone suppositories too! I want you to get a BFP next month!

D❤L 2 kids; Sunnydale, CA, United States 2748 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Jace's Mom [TTC #2]:" I wrote in there that I accept the risks and side effects of clomid and a trigger. I'm okay if I wind up being hyper stim or have a multifetal pregnancy. Answer to my prayers is what it would be :)"


:) I'm so happy for you!!

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Vicarious✩[21 wks]:" :) I'm so happy for you!! "


I hope she actually follows through with it. She's not in the office until Thursday so I'll be calling. I'd be over the moon elated if she gave me everything I asked for.

Dr.Clandestine 1 angel baby; Stockholm, Sweden 1220 posts
19th Jun '13

I am super depressed.



Why cant people be honest and upfront with you about things, instead of going behind your back, I understand you gain understanding as you get older, but [insert under 25 age here] is old enough to understand the severity of things, even more so if you already have kids you cant care for.



All she had to do was take care of herself, and I would of taken the baby as soon as she had it, all her expenses were going to be paid for, including any adoption attorney she picked out. DH and I even had the money to pay all her bills pending positive pregnancy tests/ultrasounds each month. This is breaking my heart, I feel like I lost a child, this is how I felt after my chemical.



I just dont understand.....

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
19th Jun '13

So my RE already got back to me (last night afterhours and on her day off!). She said we can go ahead with clomid and monitoring next cycle :)

LindseyLou+2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Washington 6606 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" I am super depressed. Why cant people be honest and upfront with you about things, instead of going ... [snip!] ... This is breaking my heart, I feel like I lost a child, this is how I felt after my chemical. I just dont understand....."


I know how it feels losing an adoption :( Feel free to message me if you want to chat.
I still have baby clothes in my closet from last year... I miss that baby and I never even met her.