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Max Power♥ 2 kids; Victorville, California 3328 posts
9th May '12
Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" My dad passed away 9 months ago and me and my mother both have his death benefit money, and I have a ... [snip!] ... money, and I have a job and live with my mom, grandmother, and grandfather. My mom gets money every month for her disablity."


Your mother should not have to fork up money for the child you decide to have. It is your child, not your mothers.

Momma to 3 C's 3 kids; Marianna, 2957 posts
9th May '12

Baby sitting someone else's child is one thing, but your own is a while other story...Where would you live, how would you finish school and further to better yourself?? How can you financially provide for a baby? They arent cheap by any means

Country Babe ; * (: Maryland 10 posts
9th May '12

I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49304 posts
9th May '12
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Max Power♥ 2 kids; Victorville, California 3328 posts
9th May '12
Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."


:shock:
THAT'S what caught your attention and changed your mind about this?
:?

Momma to 3 C's 3 kids; Marianna, 2957 posts
9th May '12
Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."


yes your life becomes about your baby...You're still a child yourself. Enjoy you teenage years and wait. =) Finish school better yourself for your future children.

MomToFlump Due September 28 (boy); United Kingdom 15 posts
9th May '12

Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."



:!:



Clearly shows that you haven't thought about everything properly, and shows you really are too young & not ready at all.

Mama*of*3 Due April 24; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; London, ON, Canada 318 posts
9th May '12
Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing the things I want to do . That never crossed my mind.. Maybe I will wait. Thanks."

Good thinking :) Waiting is the best thing to do at your age.

Damon's Mama 1 child; Kingman, Arizona 1403 posts
9th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LoveMuffin♥:</b>" :shock: THAT'S what caught your attention and changed your mind about this? :?"</blockquote>



Lol right!

Daphne Westcott 17 kids; Johannesburg, South Africa 410 posts
9th May '12

Children are soo expensive hey i mean me and my husband work
and it was still hard even now its hard work having a child joyfull but hard and i think to hard for 15 i think in your currency we spent $100 000 before the baby was born just for basic things you know ... i think you should enjoy life the young fruitfull life you have ahead of you . be smart

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49304 posts
9th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daphne Westcott:</b>" Children are soo expensive hey i mean me and my husband work and it was still hard even now its hard ... [snip!] ... born just for basic things you know ... i think you should enjoy life the young fruitfull life you have ahead of you . be smart"</blockquote>




You spent one hundred thousand dollars on baby items!?

Daphne Westcott 17 kids; Johannesburg, South Africa 410 posts
9th May '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Daphne Westcott:</b>" Children are soo expensive hey i mean ... [snip!] ... fruitfull life you have ahead of you . be smart"</blockquote> You spent one hundred thousand dollars on baby items!?"

yes it sounds like alot in your currency but here that the same as what $4000 would be to you lol but i know it sounds like a lot

αuτumnαl ~, FL, United States 67099 posts
status 9th May '12

No, you don't and no, you aren't.

Lady Anon Due December 25 (girl); 1 child; Davenport, Iowa 4610 posts
9th May '12
Quoting MomToFlump:" Quoting Crissi-Lynn:" I understand...... I never thought of not being able to party anymore and doing ... [snip!] ... Clearly shows that you haven't thought about everything properly, and shows you really are too young & not ready at all."


Yes, this!

Megan *1 Of Each* Due November 6; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Port Jefferson Station, New York 2651 posts
9th May '12

............... ugh