Upset bad Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

I have people in my school constaly calling me a hoe cause i lost my virgenity to this guy i was with for almost 8 months and am having his baby he left me 5 days ago and i want to constantly cry myself to sleep and run to the bathroom stalls at school so i can cry i'm not a strong 15 year old i have depression and i've tried to kill myself before my babys dad has apparently gone around and called me a hoe and he hates me but i don't how i am or what i did i just want to cry. . .HELP

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103331 posts
10th May '12

It's time to grow up. You're not only responsible for you right now, but for a child. You need to start ignoring the bull shit. Go through your day doing what you need to do.

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

I do what i am suppose to do and now i have no more work that needs to be done ive tried ignoring it but it dont help and i talk to my mom and she cant do anything i'm so tired of it i have no more work i just don't want to be here anymore

babyymama 32 kids; Pennsylvania 1302 posts
10th May '12

If you were a big enough girl to take off your panties then your big enough to put them back on. Seriously, those people most likely will not have anything to do with your life in 5 years and you care what they say?

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
10th May '12

:( I'm sorry things are so hard on you right now. I hate it when the girl is the wh**e yet the guy can talk about sleeping with that girl and brag about it like he's some awesome player. :roll:



If you chose to keep the baby, it's hard but you will have to learn to fight through that type of intimidation. Have you thought of speaking with a Councillor or therapist? Maybe a support group for teen moms?



Something can absolutely be done about this, it's hard but don't feel like there is nothing more to do. Stop being around those who hurt you. Try and surround yourself with those who support you and try to find some you can relate too.



I would get some help, there is nothing wrong with that hun. You can do this and will have to if you are bringing a child to this world.



Best of luck.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
10th May '12

I think you need to explore your options.



You think it's bad now? Wait until the baby's here, you'll get nasty looks ALL of the time, EVERYWHERE you go.



If you can't handle it just at school, then you definitely won't be able to handle it when it gets to the point everyone's staring everywhere you go.
So grow up, or don't keep that baby.

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

am absolutly keeping my baby ok were i'm moving everyone is supportive i'm in one class with different people for four hours i have depression and insomnia i've tired so many times to kill myself before when i moved here but i didn't post this to get more critisizem or however its spelled i live in this tiny town were everyone thinks if you have sex with one person your bad i'm tired of this town and all these people in it my principle is a douche and my mom is to busy with her new boyfriend to give a rats ass i cry all the time cause i can't stand it here anymore

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

When i got put in this room i had four classes i've finished all of them

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Victoria(::" am absolutly keeping my baby ok were i'm moving everyone is supportive i'm in one class with different ... [snip!] ... a douche and my mom is to busy with her new boyfriend to give a rats ass i cry all the time cause i can't stand it here anymore"


There has to be a place where you can get help. Maybe outside of town? Go to the hospital and speak with a nurse. Ask if you can get set up with a social worker. She/he have many ressources like coucelling and support groups you could be refered to.



Is there family you can move with outside of town?

babyymama 32 kids; Pennsylvania 1302 posts
10th May '12

Does your mom know

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

yes they live in the town my mom wants to move to and yea she knows but like i said she is to stuck up her new boyfriends ass to care

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Victoria(::" am absolutly keeping my baby ok were i'm moving everyone is supportive i'm in one class with different ... [snip!] ... a douche and my mom is to busy with her new boyfriend to give a rats ass i cry all the time cause i can't stand it here anymore"


We're not even trying to be hard on you. It's reality.
You have to get over the stares, they're going to be everywhere. No matter where you move.
And people are going to call you a wh**e, slut, etc.
It's just part of teen pregnancy.



If you're so adamant about keeping the baby, you need therapy. A child can't grow up with a mother who tries to kill herself. You need to find strength because that child needs you to have it.

babyymama 32 kids; Pennsylvania 1302 posts
10th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Victoria(::</b>" yes they live in the town my mom wants to move to and yea she knows but like i said she is to stuck up her new boyfriends ass to care"</blockquote>




Just wondering but how are you going to care for this baby?




Second, you need to ignore those people. They have nothing to do with you or your life and will not be anywhere in your future. You need to learn to not care what others think. You need to get help. If you can't take care of yourself first, how do you think you will take care of a baby?

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

I used to try as in i don't anymore and after i have my baby i am getting a job

babyymama 32 kids; Pennsylvania 1302 posts
10th May '12

Who is going to buy all the stuff for the baby before the baby gets here? Or after until you get a job? Then who is going to watch the baby?