☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Victoria(::" am absolutly keeping my baby ok were i'm moving everyone is supportive i'm in one class with different ... [snip!] ... a douche and my mom is to busy with her new boyfriend to give a rats ass i cry all the time cause i can't stand it here anymore"


We're not even trying to be hard on you. It's reality.
You have to get over the stares, they're going to be everywhere. No matter where you move.
And people are going to call you a wh**e, slut, etc.
It's just part of teen pregnancy.



If you're so adamant about keeping the baby, you need therapy. A child can't grow up with a mother who tries to kill herself. You need to find strength because that child needs you to have it.

babyymama 32 kids; Pennsylvania 1302 posts
10th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Victoria(::</b>" yes they live in the town my mom wants to move to and yea she knows but like i said she is to stuck up her new boyfriends ass to care"</blockquote>




Just wondering but how are you going to care for this baby?




Second, you need to ignore those people. They have nothing to do with you or your life and will not be anywhere in your future. You need to learn to not care what others think. You need to get help. If you can't take care of yourself first, how do you think you will take care of a baby?

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

I used to try as in i don't anymore and after i have my baby i am getting a job

babyymama 32 kids; Pennsylvania 1302 posts
10th May '12

Who is going to buy all the stuff for the baby before the baby gets here? Or after until you get a job? Then who is going to watch the baby?

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
10th May '12

So far i've bought everything for my baby and still will

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Victoria(::" I used to try as in i don't anymore and after i have my baby i am getting a job"


But babies need things before they arrive. Not just after.



How are you going to afford all of that?
You need to have a plan and your finances figured out.
Just because you get pregnant doesn't mean you can keep it. You need to make sure you can provide for it first.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" But babies need things before they arrive. Not just after. How are you going to afford all of that? ... [snip!] ... figured out. Just because you get pregnant doesn't mean you can keep it. You need to make sure you can provide for it first."


Oh my god, really. You aren't her Mother. Just stop already.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
10th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Oh my god, really. You aren't her Mother. Just stop already."</blockquote>




Oh shut up. Obviously her mother isn't doing what she needs to support her kid.



A lot of young girls don't get how much a baby needs. A lot of grown women don't even know.
It takes planning. How is she going to finish school and work? Who's going to care for the baby? Where is,her emotional support going to come from?
Sorry, i'm not just going to say life's rough because kids at school make fun of her.
It happens, she needs to be an adult about it if she's going to be raising a child.



She no longer has the privelage of being a child. Rumors and hurtful words at schoo, need to be ignored and she needs to start thinking about how she's going to cope when an infant needs her 24/7, because that is much more overwhelming.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Oh my god, really. You aren't her Mother. Just ... [snip!] ... needs to start thinking about how she's going to cope when an infant needs her 24/7, because that is much more overwhelming."

Well it's good she has another teen mom giving her life lessons :roll:

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
10th May '12

Girl I am sorry but you should not be bringing a child into a world while you have all these issues. You are still a kid yourself and from what I've heard(seen) it is going to be a long time before you grow up. Please do not put a child through having a mother who wants to kill herself. First of all, it is selfish! I don't know your mom but I'm sure if you died she would definitely give a crap. I know how teenagers are and they're dramatic. If I were you, I would consider other options such as adoption or abortion. You need to help and take care of yourself before you even THINK about taking care of a baby. It's not the fact that you're 15, it's everything else you've been saying. PLEASE rethink you keeping this child.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '12

Where are the f**king mod's :?

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
10th May '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Oh my god, really. You aren't her Mother. Just ... [snip!] ... needs to start thinking about how she's going to cope when an infant needs her 24/7, because that is much more overwhelming."


No she needs to think about the other smarter options for her situation. Have an abortion/adoption, realize her mistake of opening her legs and get her shit together. ABSOLUTELY selfish to bring a child into the world like that.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Well it's good she has another teen mom giving her life lessons :roll:"


:lol:
Hah, I'm barely even a teenager.



And yeah, don't you think someone who dealt with the struggles and the stress would be the best person to tell her this?
I put my big girl panties on, because it was time to be a parent. She needs to do the same.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" :lol: Hah, I'm barely even a teenager. And yeah, don't you think someone who dealt with the struggles ... [snip!] ... the best person to tell her this? I put my big girl panties on, because it was time to be a parent. She needs to do the same."

OMG :lol:

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" No she needs to think about the other smarter options for her situation. Have an abortion/adoption, ... [snip!] ... her mistake of opening her legs and get her shit together. ABSOLUTELY selfish to bring a child into the world like that."


Or to get her shit together? And the opening the legs thing is so stupid. She could have been on birth control, been uneducated about pregnancy, used a condom.
Telling her she shouldn't have opened her legs is f**king stupid.




She needs to get her shit together, or get rid of the kid. Just because she's having a hard time right now, doesn't mean she can't straighten out before that baby comes.