Amy {30+} 19 kids; Wisconsin 24541 posts
10th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Maeby♥:</b>" f**k off. I'm an adult, and I struggle with depression. I'm incredibly selfish because I've dealt ... [snip!] ... dealt with suicidal thoughts more than I would like to admit, and I'm bringing my 4th child into this world. Again. f**k off."</blockquote>



I feel the same, just had my 3rd deal with depression and thoughts. Does not make me a bad mom.

Satan 5 kids; Satans Kingdom, Vermont 114758 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Just Ames:" You know what? That is a damn good idea. SO many teen Mom's get attacked on this site. Nita, can you take this idea to Mara?"


Yep.
I sure can.

Satan 5 kids; Satans Kingdom, Vermont 114758 posts
10th May '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ +1.5:" A lot of trolls use the teen pregnancy forum too, its a double edged sword."


*sigh*
Also true.

Korey Calls Me Mama 1 child; Texas 1751 posts
10th May '12
Quoting Satan:" *sigh* Also true."


Well what if when people think it's a troll, they can just vote drama and call them out when it gets to TDC?



and yes, I was lurking through the drama corner, but I had to comment, because some posts on this thread made me sick to my stomach.

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
11th May '12

Sorry, i got called out by my counsler then got sent to the nurses for having an anxiety attack and not being able to breathe. Anyways no i didn't say i was going to kill myself i said before i got pregnant i had tried to multiple times k. I'm against aborting and i just couldn't see my own child in foster care sometimes i do come on here for support bcause me and the BD just broke up and things have gotten worse to the point now that he won't talk to me and he was the only one capable of calming me when i was stressed. A BIGGGG THANK YOU TO THE WOMEN OUT THERE WHO WAS A LOT NICER IN THEIR COMMENTS. And a big no thank you to the ones who striked me wrong i do understand my age and how i've been feeling but my baby is my priority i have bought stuff before the baby is born and i will still do so after and i will finish school my mother and granmother have already said they'd babysit while in school and working.

myr-a-myr 3 kids; Quebec 2280 posts
11th May '12
Quoting Victoria(::" Sorry, i got called out by my counsler then got sent to the nurses for having an anxiety attack and not ... [snip!] ... do so after and i will finish school my mother and granmother have already said they'd babysit while in school and working."


Hun you don't need to justify your choices to anyone. It's your body, your future child and your right to choose what you feel is best for you.



While you were with your councilor and the nurse did you get a chance to talk to them about the intimidation and bullying you are going through? I'm hoping that something can be done about it. You deserve more respect then that.

Korey Calls Me Mama 1 child; Texas 1751 posts
11th May '12
Quoting myr-a-myr:" Hun you don't need to justify your choices to anyone. It's your body, your future child and your right ... [snip!] ... and bullying you are going through? I'm hoping that something can be done about it. You deserve more respect then that."


:!::!:

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
11th May '12

You know it's funny, if it were a different girl dealing with bullies calling her a wh**e but she wasn't pregnant not a single person would tell her to just "deal with it". Just because she's pregnant doesn't mean she knows how to deal with bullies. She's still young and no different from any other person dealing with hateful words/actions at school. It's not something she should have to put up with just because she's pregnant.



OP talk to the school counselor. At least make them aware of what's happening. I'd also maybe talk with your Dr that's monitoring your pregnancy. They may know of some outside counseling or group therapies that are free. Keep your chin up. I know it's hard especially when you don't have a lot of support. You aren't alone though. There are many women on this site that have dealt with similar situations with bullying and/or depression. I hope it gets better for you soon.

Victoria(: Due November 1; Columbus, Indiana 49 posts
14th May '12

I did talk to my counsler about that and things are better i just hope things are good tommorow cause i go to the OBGYN

Nichole Warner Due December 6; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Torrington, Connecticut 1606 posts
17th May '12

Glad to see that most people here are being supportive but this is where I get mad at "mean" comments, Everyone makes mistakes, Guys seem to get away with sleeping around knocking girls up, while girls are left with the child and all the consequences, Yes the OP has to learn to "deal" with everything, but she needs support to. I really do wish you the best of luck, and counseling wouldn't hurt even if you wern't dealing with the name calling and drama, just being a teen mom could use some extra support

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
20th May '12
Quoting babyymama:" If you were a big enough girl to take off your panties then your big enough to put them back on. Seriously, ... [snip!] ... back on. Seriously, those people most likely will not have anything to do with your life in 5 years and you care what they say?"


best quote ever.

Bluebonnet Here, CA, United States 65247 posts
status 21st May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting NIC☮LE:</b>" best quote ever."</blockquote>




Not really :?

Korey Calls Me Mama 1 child; Texas 1751 posts
21st May '12
Quoting NIC☮LE:" best quote ever."


:roll:

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
21st May '12
Quoting Maeby♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting NIC☮LE:</b>" best quote ever."</blockquote> Not really :?"



Well maybe I phrased that wrong. Should've said best quote I've seen on BG. :) Which, yeah really it is. :)

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
21st May '12
Quoting Haley-Korey'sMommy:" :roll:"


:wink: