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What Should I do!? aminahan0610 Due November 25; Rockland, Massachusetts 13 posts
12th May '12

Okay so I have been with this guy for 2 years and when we moved back to MA (with our parents) from OK his attitude completely changed. He started to hang out with his old friends (who are no good) and he hasnt done anything he said he would like get a job, his license, a car, and now that our baby is on the way he still hasnt been getting his priorities straight. He's actually been pushing me away for example I'm tired and just want to stay in and watch movies and cuddle and he wants to go with his friends which i wouldnt mind if he did but since i wouldnt go out he would then stay in and be in bad mood all night and cause a fight which lead to him calling me Horrible names, would insult me, it even got to the extent of him telling me to go kill myself. He has turned into someone a dont even know. That was happening almost everyother day for the last three months so i decided to move back into my parents house because the drama and fighting is not good for me or this baby. The problem is he keeps calling me and saying that hes sorry and wants to work on things and he has gotten a job which he starts on monday which hes doing it for me and the baby. So should I give him another chance or just let him go?

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
12th May '12

He sounds like an ass, but you could give him another chance. That doesn't mean you have to move back in with him, you can stay at your parents house and let him prove he's actually changed.

Nufan 18 kids; Missouri 1743 posts
12th May '12

I would start over, go back to dating. he hurt you, and its not ok, and he has to work to gain your trust again.
but if he gets disrespectful again, then end it.

Amber Mosher 1 child; Rochelle, Illinois 1860 posts
12th May '12

Forgive if I read this wrong, but he tells you to kill yourself? I would leave on just that statement alone.

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
12th May '12
Quoting ♡♡:" He sounds like an ass, but you could give him another chance. That doesn't mean you have to move back in with him, you can stay at your parents house and let him prove he's actually changed."


Exactly. Get back together if it's what you want, but make it known that if he screws up you won't put up with it. He needs to be a man for you and for his child.

user banned Virginia 1362 posts
12th May '12
Quoting aminahan0610:" Okay so I have been with this guy for 2 years and when we moved back to MA (with our parents) from OK ... [snip!] ... a job which he starts on monday which hes doing it for me and the baby. So should I give him another chance or just let him go?"


Let him go. He's an ass.

aminahan0610 Due November 25; Rockland, Massachusetts 13 posts
12th May '12
Quoting Amber Mosher:" Forgive if I read this wrong, but he tells you to kill yourself? I would leave on just that statement alone."


Exactly! Thats why I told him im over the drama and his ways and i left.

aminahan0610 Due November 25; Rockland, Massachusetts 13 posts
12th May '12
Quoting ♡♡:" He sounds like an ass, but you could give him another chance. That doesn't mean you have to move back in with him, you can stay at your parents house and let him prove he's actually changed."

Yeah thats what I would do if i were to get back with him, Its just I dont want to invest more time into our relationship if he continues to treat me badly and does nothing but sit at home and go out and party... I dont need that in my life right now. I need him to grow up and start acting like a mature father.

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
12th May '12
Quoting aminahan0610:" Yeah thats what I would do if i were to get back with him, Its just I dont want to invest more time into ... [snip!] ... and go out and party... I dont need that in my life right now. I need him to grow up and start acting like a mature father."


Well it's up to you, you can try and see if he continues to do those things and if he does you can easily put it to an end as soon as it starts. But then again if you don't try you might sit there and wonder 'what if'. It's up to you either way, and you can just kinda start talking to see if he's willing to change?

aminahan0610 Due November 25; Rockland, Massachusetts 13 posts
12th May '12
Quoting ♡♡:" Well it's up to you, you can try and see if he continues to do those things and if he does you can easily ... [snip!] ... there and wonder 'what if'. It's up to you either way, and you can just kinda start talking to see if he's willing to change?"

Thats true! Thanks For your advice. We will see if he does or not!