Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
14th May '12
Quoting CallMeMoses:" Yes, about a week ago. I only remembered it because the pictures were horrid. "


Ah. Well in that case, everyone is better off without him.

Moses. Due October 27; 3 kids; Texas 16003 posts
14th May '12
Quoting Mama to William:" Ah. Well in that case, everyone is better off without him."


Ha, exactly. But, to say the other girl is just getting what she deserved is icky, especially if you don't know what she "got" lol

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
14th May '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" I'm lost. Are you friends with this woman? Why are people talking about abuse? Eh. "


Because he's currently in jail awaiting his hearing wednesday for alleged domestic assault.



I say alleged because the DA has evidence that she attacked him with a brick so he hit her defending himself. Its a long story and I shouldn't have gotten into it on here. When I made my first post I only had her story, not his or witnesses and had not yet seen pictures of his injuries but now I have.



He has a broken cheekbone, his right ear is torn through the cartilage and mangled, a huge knot and 1 inch gash behind his ear, a concussion and bruises all over his ribs and arms.



Please DO NOT quote this part

Moses. Due October 27; 3 kids; Texas 16003 posts
14th May '12
Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:"


well holy fucking shit. they are more than toxic around one another it sounds like

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
14th May '12

Its all a bunch of drama that my child and I will not be involved with. I try to stay out of it but everyone seems to keep coming to me talking about everything and I also still have feelings for my ex which is hard.



In his defense I will say that he never once hit me or any other person and I've known him for 13 years. Apparently this woman has a history of getting drunk and beating on him and this one time he just snapped. There are witnesses writing statements to say that she was constantly abusing him and he always just walked away...



Like I said a ton of drama and i'm doing my best not to get involved I'm only concerning myself with what will affect my child (

Jenny&Boopy Due June 26; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7410 posts
status 14th May '12
Quoting CallMeMoses:" That is incredibly offensive. You should know what she "got" before you spout off shit you don't really know facts about."


From this post alone it seemed like the girl "got" dumped after being a homewrecker that's why I said that. I did not know that the girl got beaten, nobody deserves that. EXCUSE ME for not reading somebody's entire posting history to leave a comment!! Most people post a reply only based on what the OP says in that 1 post. Unless someone is in my PT I can't keep track of who says what every minute of every day. Had I known the girl was getting beat I wouldn't have said anything at all!

Moses. Due October 27; 3 kids; Texas 16003 posts
14th May '12
Quoting Jenifer Casto:" From this post alone it seemed like the girl "got" dumped after being a homewrecker that's why I said ... [snip!] ... track of who says what every minute of every day. Had I known the girl was getting beat I wouldn't have said anything at all!"


You shouldn't have to know, this girl didn't do anything wrong to OP. Because you assume she is a homewrecker? She never had any obligation to OP anyhow, it was her ex that did. She wasn't in a committed relationship with OP, he was.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
14th May '12

Hmm. I see.. interesting. Sounds like a sad, sad relationship.

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
15th May '12
Quoting Jenifer Casto:" l!"


Dont feel bad theres no way you knew about that

Jenny&Boopy Due June 26; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7410 posts
status 15th May '12
Quoting CallMeMoses:" You shouldn't have to know, this girl didn't do anything wrong to OP. Because you assume she is a homewrecker? ... [snip!] ... She never had any obligation to OP anyhow, it was her ex that did. She wasn't in a committed relationship with OP, he was. "


The OP stated the girl is a homewrecker, so yes that is what I thought because that is what I read. It was not a random comment and I'm not the only one who had the same thought/same type of comment before you interjected so get off my shit, damn. Why do you care so much in the first place?

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
15th May '12
Quoting CallMeMoses:" You shouldn't have to know, this girl didn't do anything wrong to OP. Because you assume she is a homewrecker? ... [snip!] ... She never had any obligation to OP anyhow, it was her ex that did. She wasn't in a committed relationship with OP, he was. "


Umm technically she did because I told her that him and I were together and have a child together and she said she didn't care that her heart was cold and she's been done wrong so she doesn't care who she hurts she's gonna do what she wants to do

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
15th May '12

My first thought was not to bash the "homewrecker" but the lack of maturity on the behalf of the OP. That is where the immaturity comment I stated was directed.

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
15th May '12
Quoting Not tellin:" My first thought was not to bash the "homewrecker" but the lack of maturity on the behalf of the OP. That is where the immaturity comment I stated was directed."


I was being immature to tell her that I know pain because he left me for her? What am I supposed to say when she comes to me saying how I couldn't possibly know how hurt she feels that he's a liar and blah blah blah



She shouldn't have contacted me talking about my ex and her problems when they're both at fault for my family being torn apart

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
15th May '12
Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:" Umm technically she did because I told her that him and I were together and have a child together and ... [snip!] ... care that her heart was cold and she's been done wrong so she doesn't care who she hurts she's gonna do what she wants to do"


Let's clarify something here, HE LEFT YOU!!! PERIOD!!!!



If you had something worth holding on to, he would have never strayed.

Moses. Due October 27; 3 kids; Texas 16003 posts
15th May '12
Quoting Jenifer Casto:" The OP stated the girl is a homewrecker, so yes that is what I thought because that is what I read. ... [snip!] ... same thought/same type of comment before you interjected so get off my shit, damn. Why do you care so much in the first place?"


I wasn't going to reply to each and every one, I assumed my one comment would be applied to everyone who said the same thing essentially. And, because as women, we tend to label other women as homewreckers, which is not how it should be. We tend to place blame on the one with no commitment to anyone. To call a woman a homewrecker is implying she came in to your home and ripped your family apart. When in reality, I haven't ever seen that happen. I have seen many men who have wandering dicks. But not a woman who actually rips the family apart.