amymarie. 1 child; Maryland 47320 posts
May 15th '12

i think you need to let yourself get over the initial shock and clear your head. i went through the exact same thing. i only wanted one kid and i wanted a boy. i don't like girls either so when i found out i was having a girl i was devastated. i was in a depression for quite a while. but after a while i did get over it but i think it's because my baby was developing more into a baby and i was starting to bond with her and think about how she is mine and i made her. i still wish i had a boy to this day (my daughter is almost 3) but i love my little mini me more than life itself. just give yourself some time, im pretty positive things will change once she comes into the world.

Sheldon 17 kids; Clemmons, North Carolina 1549 posts
May 15th '12

I have been trying to conceive for the last 1yr and half, there are women who have been trying for MUCH longer than that. I suggest you give your baby to someone who will love them for who they are no matter the gender. Get over yourself.

catttttt 2 kids; Texas 5651 posts
May 15th '12

1st off with being/getting pregnant you know that there's a 50/50 chance for a boy or a girl. So to be that upset for something you have no control over is going to get you no where. I can't stand females myself my daughter I love to death.

* Sara * 2 kids; Texas 18864 posts
May 15th '12

How sad. You don't always get what you want in life and many people would love to have a daughter. I understand gender dissapointment but saying you hate your own child is taking it to far. You really should look into counseling. It's not healthy to be resentful of your own flesh and blood. Poor baby.

Jamie Reyka 1 child; Richmond, Virginia 779 posts
May 15th '12

Maybe I'm wron for saying this. But there are so many women out there that would kill to have that baby you are carrying. What you just posted had to be the most selfish ungrateful thing I've ever heard in my life!

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
May 15th '12
Quoting Mj mini mom:" Omg I would of killed for a boy that's all I wanted found out today I'm having a freakin girl I honestly ... [snip!] ... sux it's the birthday of my dead sisters birthday and I'm having a girl I'm so pissed and so angered at everyone who is happy"

How do you teach? :? Well I'm sorry you didn't get what you wanted, I don't get how you can "hate" girls...Idk what else to say lol.

(*Melly*) 1 child; 2 angel babies; California 2483 posts
May 15th '12

Wow, you want to jump off a bridge because you're having a girl?? Are you kidding me? You are concerned about this instead of hoping for a healthy pregnancy and baby?? Not everyone gets to take their babies home. Thats pretty selfish.

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Dothan, AL, United States 8386 posts
May 15th '12
Quoting The Blissful Six:" I'm sorry you're so disappointed. I suggest for the sake of your child, you look into counseling."


Agreed.

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13162 posts
May 15th '12

I felt pretty bad about having a boy with my last. I so want a girl this time.... I have one of both and I love them both (my son is amazing and so affectionate) but I just prefer girls. It wouldn't change anything if I had another boy. I am pregnant and this baby is coming no matter the sex....
but threatening to jump off a bridge is a little extreme though.:?

Xo Tiffy 2 kids; North Carolina 545 posts
May 15th '12
Quoting Layla's Momma ♥:" Wow. Talk about selfish."


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nooch 1 child; Clarksville, Tennessee 1862 posts
May 15th '12
Quoting * Sara *:" How sad. You don't always get what you want in life and many people would love to have a daughter. I ... [snip!] ... it to far. You really should look into counseling. It's not healthy to be resentful of your own flesh and blood. Poor baby."


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Adriana'sMombie 1 child; Quakertown, Pennsylvania 2113 posts
May 15th '12

Oh boo hoo. Suck it up!
Just be happy you are able to have kids. Other women would LOVE o have babies.



You should love this child regardless of the sex.
If you dont want it, give her away to someone who does.



Get over yourself!

Monsters² Mom Due August 16; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Lemon, .., Yemen 5492 posts
May 15th '12
Quoting Jamie Reyka:" Maybe I'm wron for saying this. But there are so many women out there that would kill to have that baby ... [snip!] ... have that baby you are carrying. What you just posted had to be the most selfish ungrateful thing I've ever heard in my life!"


:!::!: my sentiments exactly!

pinkfishtacozs Missouri 4533 posts
May 15th '12

Also, I would suggest quitting your job as a preschool teacher. No way in f**k would I trust someone with my daughter if they can say sadistic shit about jumping off a bridge because of the gender of their baby.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
May 15th '12

You don't always get what you want. Just be lucky you've got a healthy baby. Some women can't have kids at all and some people have kids with a lot of problems. You'll get over it.