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Mother's with tubals. .desiree. 2 kids; Arkansas 21983 posts
16th May '12

Honestly, overall, do you regret it?

LαNenα 3 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 18513 posts
16th May '12
Quoting .desiree.:" Honestly, overall, do you regret it?"


I'm just sad cuz I'm single and I didn't really have a choice. For medical reasons it was my best option.

2girls+3boys=complete! 3 kids; Fresno, California 1204 posts
16th May '12

watching!

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
16th May '12

Nope. Lord save me from the children I already have sometimes. No more!

.desiree. 2 kids; Arkansas 21983 posts
16th May '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" Nope. Lord save me from the children I already have sometimes. No more!"



lmfao that's how I feel most days.

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
16th May '12
Quoting .desiree.:" lmfao that's how I feel most days."


It took me a while after my third was born, though. I knew I didn't want any more. Instead of being, "Awww, jealous!" when I saw a pregnant woman, I thanked my lucky stars I didn't have to do it again. But mentally, it took me about a year and a half to do it.

Etha 6 kids; 3 angel babies; Blytheville, Arkansas 269 posts
16th May '12

Not at all!!!!! lol 6 kids is enough! :)

Dawnmarie Naughton 7 kids; Mastic Beach, New York 456 posts
16th May '12

7 is enough after the operation i did cry holding my daughter looking at her i cried knowing she was my last one

Crystal Mom of 4 4 kids; New York 6309 posts
16th May '12

Not yet but I only had it done a few months ago. I feel a little sad at the lose of the ability to reproduce but yet I know I don't want more kids. I have 3 from a previous relationship. My SO has 2 from a previous relationship. We have 1 child together. Six kid weekends are rough, I can't imagine another LO running around here. :shock:

.desiree. 2 kids; Arkansas 21983 posts
16th May '12
Quoting WeenieMachine:" It took me a while after my third was born, though. I knew I didn't want any more. Instead of being, ... [snip!] ... woman, I thanked my lucky stars I didn't have to do it again. But mentally, it took me about a year and a half to do it."


I think it's taking me a little longer because I'm so young and I only have two kids..and they are both girls. I want a boy but I don't want the responsibility of another child.

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
16th May '12

The only thing that is bothering me about my tubal, I bleed constantly. Other than that, I don't regret it!
ETA: I have 2 kids...Girl & Boy. I wouldn't have it any other way..
But Question for everyone...If you do have a tubal, can't you pay the money to have eggs drawn and have them inseminated?? I was reading something somewhere about it. Just curious... I don't want anymore...Medical reasons I got mine tied.

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 19722 posts
status 16th May '12

I'm 25 w/ two and just had mine done when I had my daughter. I *know* my family is complete, two is enough for me, so no i do not regret it now nor do i forsee myself regetting it

user banned 3 kids; Florence, South Carolina 39499 posts
16th May '12

i regretted it immediately after it was done. It took me 6 months to be ok with it.



I don't really want any more kids, it's just how final it was that bothered me. It was the end of my fertility and that was hard to accept.

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
16th May '12
Quoting ❥Raye:" The only thing that is bothering me about my tubal, I bleed constantly. Other than that, I don't regret ... [snip!] ... I was reading something somewhere about it. Just curious... I don't want anymore...Medical reasons I got mine tied. "


Is that a common side effect? Mine are blocked, not tied and I don't have any between period bleeding.

Crystal Mom of 4 4 kids; New York 6309 posts
16th May '12
Quoting Baby Big Head TM:" i regretted it immediately after it was done. It took me 6 months to be ok with it. I don't really ... [snip!] ... want any more kids, it's just how final it was that bothered me. It was the end of my fertility and that was hard to accept. "


I'm still coming to terms with that. It's very strange that I feel that way even though I know I don't want more kids. My SO doesn't understand at all. When I tried to explain it to him he seemed to think that it meant I wanted more kids.