[[Breezy]] Due August 15; 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 16186 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting *Doodle'sMama*:" well damn, why didnt people wait for an explanation before they send this to TDC :? :?"


'Cause y'all some mean b***hes. :lol:

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting *Doodle'sMama*:" well damn, why didnt people wait for an explanation before they send this to TDC :? :?"


It doesn't belong in AS, it would have went there anyway as I posted in the mod forum to make it happen.



Just being about abortion doesn't make something qualify for AS. It needs to be someone seeking support or asking questions about their abortion.



A general discussion about abortion is not cool, and posting in here just to avoid negative feedback is ABUSE of this forum, as I said earlier.



C.

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 3 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4103 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting *Doodle'sMama*:" It's abortion survivors, its a protected forum for people thinking about getting an abortion or for ... [snip!] ... to talk about anything that had to do with my past abortion I would probably post here. People can be so mean if you dont. "


Just read it all, it really looks like. it could have resulted in a positive conversation about having children after having an abortion, which could be good support for those considering it. Unfortunently, people got over sensitive and over defensive, probably with the best intentions, but still...this doesn't belong in TDC

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting *Doodle'sMama*:" It's abortion survivors, its a protected forum for people thinking about getting an abortion or for ... [snip!] ... to talk about anything that had to do with my past abortion I would probably post here. People can be so mean if you dont. "


It's for people who have had one or are thinking of one, who need personal help and assistance and support with it.



Not just for people who've had abortion to talk about anything they like without people being able to reply back.



She abused the protected nature of the forum just to avoid negative comments.



That's NOT what it's for.



C.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
May 17th '12

Well this was f**king stupid.

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting superpregnant:" Just read it all, it really looks like. it could have resulted in a positive conversation about having ... [snip!] ... people got over sensitive and over defensive, probably with the best intentions, but still...this doesn't belong in TDC"


You're right, it belongs in a place like FFA like she said. But when something goes in AS and doesn't belong, the only place it CAN be moved is TDC.



So this went to TDC 'cause it doesn't belong in AS.



C.

[[Breezy]] Due August 15; 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 16186 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting God:" You're right, it belongs in a place like FFA like she said. But when something goes in AS and doesn't ... [snip!] ... goes in AS and doesn't belong, the only place it CAN be moved is TDC. So this went to TDC 'cause it doesn't belong in AS. C."


I guess I don't really understand why it was deemed inappropriate for AS. The question she posed at the end of her post infers that she was seeking support. At least that's the way I took it.

user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting [[Breezy]]:" I guess I don't really understand why it was deemed inappropriate for AS. The question she posed at the end of her post infers that she was seeking support. At least that's the way I took it. "


She asked other people if they were gonna tell their kids about their abortions. Nowhere in the post did she actually mention her abortion or needing any kind of help.



All WE see, without surfing through that video to find her section, is her going on about how she was on MTV and that's where she announced she was pregnant.



That's abuse of AS



C.

user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting God:" It doesn't belong in AS, it would have went there anyway as I posted in the mod forum to make it happen. ... [snip!] ... about abortion is not cool, and posting in here just to avoid negative feedback is ABUSE of this forum, as I said earlier. C."


.... especially when youre bringing up the point that you just put all the same info out on freakin MTV... National television kinda negates the wanting to avoid negativity.

user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting superpregnant:" Just read it all, it really looks like. it could have resulted in a positive conversation about having ... [snip!] ... people got over sensitive and over defensive, probably with the best intentions, but still...this doesn't belong in TDC"


it still could do this.... just because it moved to tdc doesnt mean it cant have a good conversation, except now all anyone wants to talk about are forum technicalities.

[[Breezy]] Due August 15; 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 16186 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting God:" She asked other people if they were gonna tell their kids about their abortions. Nowhere in the post ... [snip!] ... her section, is her going on about how she was on MTV and that's where she announced she was pregnant. That's abuse of AS C."


Yeah you're right she never did explain her story.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting Cocaine
user banned Beverly Hills, California 36921 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting NIC☮LE:" OMG I didn't even know it was sent to TDC until a girl messaged me telling me :S TO CLARIFY, before ... [snip!] ... MTV special was about abortion and I was asking other abortion survivors if they're open like I was. Damn. As if it's in TDC."


Just because its about abortion, doesnt mean it belongs in the Abortion Survivors forum.



your post describing your abortion experience touched many, many people, including myself, and that is the sort of thing that DOES belong there.



This would have been better in FFA.

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 3 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4103 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting NIC☮LE:" OMG I didn't even know it was sent to TDC until a girl messaged me telling me :S TO CLARIFY, before ... [snip!] ... MTV special was about abortion and I was asking other abortion survivors if they're open like I was. Damn. As if it's in TDC."


I could NEVER be that brave, to go on TV and talk about my experience. Did you get a lot of feedback? Kudos to you.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
May 17th '12
Quoting Sam ☼:" Just because its about abortion, doesnt mean it belongs in the Abortion Survivors forum. your post ... [snip!] ... many people, including myself, and that is the sort of thing that DOES belong there. This would have been better in FFA."


I understand. Should've posted in FFA, and debated it. I just didn't want tons of pro lifers calling me a baby killer and the likes so I posted it in AS. Bad judgement on my part because then it was sent to TDC. Ah welll.