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La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
18th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhatNugget:</b>" Does he get counseling of any sort? I would look into talking to a therpist and see what they think. ... [snip!] ... out. Try other ways maybe. I dont know, it just seems like he has a lot of emotions bottled up and he needs to let them out. "</blockquote>



He's been seeing a therapist for over two years now. He's been on multiple medications. Nothing freakin works.

PhatNugget 17 kids; Ontario 12601 posts
18th May '12
Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PhatNugget:</b>" Does he get counseling of any sort? I would ... [snip!] ... He's been seeing a therapist for over two years now. He's been on multiple medications. Nothing freakin works."


Thats tough mama, if you dont mind me asking.... is he diagnosed with anything?

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
18th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting PhatNugget:</b>" Thats tough mama, if you dont mind me asking.... is he diagnosed with anything?"</blockquote>




Adhd, ODD, anxiety, and the newest diagnoses is aspergers. I personally think they're just pulling shit out their collective arses....because like me they don't know wtf is wrong with him.

user banned California 36390 posts
18th May '12

Do they have youth psychiatric hospitals? If it was me, I'd have my kid locked away where he couldn't hurt himself or anybody else until the doctors figured out wtf was wrong with him.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
18th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Do they have youth psychiatric hospitals? If it was me, I'd have my kid locked away where he couldn't hurt himself or anybody else until the doctors figured out wtf was wrong with him."</blockquote>




They do, and if it were up to me-he would have been in there last summer. BD wont consent and I don't have sole custody so I can't just take him.

user banned California 36390 posts
18th May '12
Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Do they have youth psychiatric ... [snip!] ... were up to me-he would have been in there last summer. BD wont consent and I don't have sole custody so I can't just take him."


Why the f**k won't he consent? Just because he's a douchenozzle? Isn't he sick of his stuff getting ruined?

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
18th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Why the f**k won't he consent? Just because he's a douchenozzle? Isn't he sick of his stuff getting ruined?"</blockquote>




Because he doesn't think that ashtian is as much of a problem as he actually is....and its all my fault because I can't control him.

user banned California 36390 posts
18th May '12
Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Why the f**k won't he consent? ... [snip!] ... he doesn't think that ashtian is as much of a problem as he actually is....and its all my fault because I can't control him."


Mental illness is real. If he had cancer, would he deny him chemo? Tell him to get over himself so you can help your kid.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
18th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Mental illness is real. If he had cancer, would he deny him chemo? Tell him to get over himself so you can help your kid."</blockquote>




He doesn't think it is real. He makes me feel like shit on a daily because I get depressed alot due to being unmedicated bipolar. He thinks that I should just get up and be better and not let shit bother me so much. It doesn't help a god damned thing that I get absolutely zero help with the kids or the house. Is my house a holy f**king wreck right now? You bet your ass it is...so much so that im ashamed of it. Am I going to get help with it? No....and that just adds to my depression because I am so completely overwhelmed. Im drowning and nobody is going to save me.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49129 posts
19th May '12
Quoting La~La:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Mental illness is real. If ... [snip!] ... No....and that just adds to my depression because I am so completely overwhelmed. Im drowning and nobody is going to save me."


is it possible to have him bakeracted i know it sucks but if the hospital will bakeract him then tech he can't do anything.

Joslynn'sMommy 1 child; Missouri 261 posts
19th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ambird:</b>" Somethings going on with him. He old enough to ... [snip!] ... needs. He doesn't process things the way a normal child does. I've tried all of those things. I don't know what to do anymore."</blockquote>




Oh! Well that makes a difference. My brother is MR so I can't somewhat relate. You just have to work with him, not against him. And some counseling or therapy probably wouldn't hurt.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49129 posts
19th May '12
Quoting Joslynn'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ambird:</b>" ... [snip!] ... can't somewhat relate. You just have to work with him, not against him. And some counseling or therapy probably wouldn't hurt."



U clearly didnt read there most likely just pulling shit out there ass because they don't know what is wrong with him.

Joslynn'sMommy 1 child; Missouri 261 posts
19th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting 03751908485:</b>" U clearly didnt read there most likely just pulling shit out there ass because they don't know what is wrong with him."</blockquote>




No, I just now was able to read it. I'm havong to use my phone so I don't get every single post right away. Sorry.

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22036 posts
19th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Joslynn'sMommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ambird:</b>" ... [snip!] ... can't somewhat relate. You just have to work with him, not against him. And some counseling or therapy probably wouldn't hurt."</blockquote>




He has been seeing therapists psychologists and psychiatrists for over two years now. Notice that all of those are plural. When one of them can't or wont give me an answer I take him elsewhere.

PhatNugget 17 kids; Ontario 12601 posts
23rd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting La~La:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Weasley [tech probz]:</b>" Do they have youth psychiatric ... [snip!] ... were up to me-he would have been in there last summer. BD wont consent and I don't have sole custody so I can't just take him."</blockquote>




Ask his doctors to pink slip him, that way BD can't refuse.