Maegan(FAKER)'s 2 kids; Tucson, Arizona 5332 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting Stacey O'Bryan:" ok im in some serious need of advice here. my 5yr old daughter has been caught masterbating several ... [snip!] ... tact" but i cannot understand WHY she is doing this i want her to STOP! f**k teaching privacy its GROSS and i want it to stop"


Don't make her feel ashamed for it. Kids do this stuff its normal you going to give her a comple and f**k her up for life. Explain to her there is a time and place to make sure to do it alone where no one can see and to wash her hands after. Also tell her not to put the cats in her pants.

HungryHippo 2 kids; Missouri 11973 posts
22nd May '12

......she's exploring her body
Its normal not f**king nasty




She's not doing it because its sexual

*...*...*...* 1 child; Michigan 8230 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting Stacey O'Bryan:" ok im in some serious need of advice here. my 5yr old daughter has been caught masterbating several ... [snip!] ... tact" but i cannot understand WHY she is doing this i want her to STOP! f**k teaching privacy its GROSS and i want it to stop"


Wow she is going to need a therapist after you get done with her.



Teaching her privacy is the right thing to do and any doctor or therapist with half a degree will tell you that.



Specially if you find out she has NOT been molested. Touching yourself feels good at 5 and it feels good at 40 it's a fact of life and what humans do.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting wombie:" ok calm down it really is pretty normal for a child to touch themselves......it feels good, even for ... [snip!] ... she needs to go to a private area if she's going to touch herself like that......and that she should only use her hands......"

:!:

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
22nd May '12

I Bet you did it while you were little also. Its NORMAL. if you want to admit it or not, thats your decision. But its DEF normal. My daughter named hers. There isn't anything you can do to stop her from doing it. talk to her about the cats tho... thats..a little weird.

user banned 2 kids; Minnesota 7318 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting Becca Clontz:" You could take her to see a Child Psychologist, maybe they could shed some light on where she picked it up and why she's doing it. "


She picked it up by feeling around and does it cuz it feels good. No need to spend money on that.

ashleeoh Due August 10; 1 child; Tucson, Arizona 2550 posts
22nd May '12

For the most part it's normal and it's nOt "f**king nasty" and if you teach your daughter it is she is gonna grow up with some major issues about herself. Relax.

Delilah Isabella 2 kids; California 30551 posts
22nd May '12

This is normal and I bet you did it too ;) You just don't remember

Proginoskes Due September 18; 1 child; Williamston, North Carolina 3835 posts
22nd May '12

Really? I hope you don't tell her that she's "f**king nasty". You will scar her for life like that.
It's totally normal, she's not doing to be sexual, she just knows that it feels good.
I would tell her that she could hurt herself with the kittens, though, they could scratch her accidentally.

user banned TTA since Sep 2007; 1 child; Kansas 16909 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting Becca Clontz:" You could take her to see a Child Psychologist, maybe they could shed some light on where she picked it up and why she's doing it. "


It is normal for a child to explore their body at this age.

Stacey O'Bryan Due October 26; 2 kids; Ohio 78 posts
22nd May '12

i have talked to her and no i don't think its scaring for telling her that its inappropriate to touch herself because if im ok with this behavior how can i expect her not to f**k around and be pregnant at 10 years old! she is five not fifteen!! how did behavior like this become normal?

Sofia's Mummy♥ 1 child; United Kingdom 7331 posts
22nd May '12

Your attitude is disgusting. If it were a little boy would you be so grossed out?



It is NORMAL. She is a CHILD. Get the f**k over yourself before you mess up that little girls sense of self. Don't you dare make her feel ashamed about biology.

Spyro 1 child; Japan 1142 posts
22nd May '12

Seriously? She doesn't understand. All she knows is it feels good. You freaking out and possibly scaring her is actually pretty disgusting.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" It's normal and you're going to f**k her up for life by making her feel so ashamed of her being curious. ... [snip!] ... five. She's exploring her body, and touching herself feels good to her. Instead of freaking out on her talk to her calmly."



this.

you really need to educate yourself!!!

KRG29 North Carolina 682 posts
22nd May '12

It's completely normal, maybe not acceptable, but normal. You just need to explain to her that it is not appropriate and she could hurt herself.