The Pretty Poodle™ 1 child; Illinois 7341 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting kate & tilly:" It's because it was in a protected forum originally that was not meant to discuss this. However it has been moved so everyone can now drop it."

PRETTY MUCH!!!!

ღ my ☼ Michigan 7713 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting umadbro?:" AS is a protected forum. This contained anti-abortion speech and after being told several times OP did nothing to edit it. The only option was to send it to TDC."


She was probably trying to catch up on the inflow of the 50 posts people did at the same time.

Boobo&bugs Due September 24; 1 child; Simpsonville, South Carolina 7580 posts
22nd May '12

Legally he cannot file anything. There is no baby yet so there is no case. It sucks for sure but legally he has no say.

♛MeLLiSSa♛ 1 child; Indiana 1158 posts
22nd May '12

**OKAY!!! I'm sorry for posting this is that forum! My mistake!**



But no, I wasn't there but a close friend of mine was there when this stupid fight happened. He found texts on her phone of her flirting with another guy and asked her about it and she got super upset about it and left the house. My friend then tried to get a hold of her for over 24 hours and she would not talk to him. She finally came back to the house and got her stuff and left. He was waiting at the house with intentions to make everything okay and just get over the agurement, but she didn't care to. She called him yesterday and told him she heard the heartbeat and saw the baby, and he said she seemed excited. But today she called and said she was going through with the abortion.

ღ my ☼ Michigan 7713 posts
22nd May '12

To me, that sounds like she is just doing it to piss him off.



Why call him one day, and sound excited about it all and then call the next day and tell him that.



Honestly, I am pro-choice, but that girl..is a c**t for doing something like that.

The Pretty Poodle™ 1 child; Illinois 7341 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting ♛MeLLiSSa♛:" **OKAY!!! I'm sorry for posting this is that forum! My mistake!** But no, I wasn't there but a close ... [snip!] ... and saw the baby, and he said she seemed excited. But today she called and said she was going through with the abortion."

An abortion is a very emotional decision. I can almost guarrantee she was thinking about it the entire time. Probably trying to make herself want this baby because he wanted it so bad.

αuτumnα∫ 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 66354 posts
status 22nd May '12

I'd say he's better off without her, especially if she's messing around and would even throw around getting an abortion just because she's upset. I don't have much to go off but he sounds like a decent guy. He deserves better.

Gold 2 kids; Somewhere under Wonderland, VA, United States 40458 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting mαkαnαni:" I'd say he's better off without her, especially if she's messing around and would even throw around getting ... [snip!] ... getting an abortion just because she's upset. I don't have much to go off but he sounds like a decent guy. He deserves better."



I was thinking this too. If she wants to sneak around and throw shit in his face, I'd tell her to gtfo of this great new house he just bought.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
22nd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♛MeLLiSSa♛:</b>" I wasn't sure where to post this..but I'm curious about this. My friend was with his girlfriend for maybe ... [snip!] ... a dumbass fight! Does he have any say so what so ever in this? Like, she can just go get rid of the baby against his wishes? "</blockquote>



Her body, her choice. Perhaps she just knows that its not going to work out and wants to spare herself the 18+ years of drama.



And i doubt at 10 weeks they've already got the nursery set up. Who does that?

Redneck Mamma North Carolina 8746 posts
22nd May '12
Quoting Foxy Bea:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♛MeLLiSSa♛:</b>" I wasn't sure where to post this..but ... [snip!] ... to spare herself the 18+ years of drama. And i doubt at 10 weeks they've already got the nursery set up. Who does that?"


I had a friend that was talking about setting up a nursery just because she was trying to get pregnant.. Even started buying stuff and looking at cribs...



Some people are just like that. Personally I think it is a jinx.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
22nd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blacky Bo Peep™:</b>" An abortion is a very emotional decision. I can almost guarrantee she was thinking about it the entire time. Probably trying to make herself want this baby because he wanted it so bad."</blockquote>




Um you can't say this for sure. Not EVERYONE realizes or thinks its an emotional decision and some women use abortion as a pawn to get what they want. I was friends with a girl who openly would tell her other friends she would tell her BD she was going to get an abortion so he would bend over backwards for her. It's sick but it happens.



Op if this chick was txting another guys he is probably a phyco who likes to play head games. Your friend is better off without her.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
22nd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O!:</b>" I mean, I'm sure if he filed some sort of suit against her he could prevent her from having the abortion ... [snip!] ... they're committed..or at least he is...not many men are like that especially when they are in such a short relationship..."</blockquote>




He can't file shit to stop her. :? What kind of fucked up shit are you spewing?

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
22nd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HotMom21ERF:</b>" poor girl she didnt even know"</blockquote>



Poor girl? At least now in tdc it will get all the pro life responses she needs.

user banned Due July 3; 2 kids; Australia 14351 posts
22nd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O!:</b>" I mean, I'm sure if he filed some sort of suit against her he could prevent her from having the abortion ... [snip!] ... they're committed..or at least he is...not many men are like that especially when they are in such a short relationship..."</blockquote>



Beg her to keep a child she obviously doesnt want?

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
22nd May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Perfect1y Imperfect:</b>" She was probably trying to catch up on the inflow of the 50 posts people did at the same time."</blockquote>



Very doubtful that pages 1 through 4 were all at once.