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I just don't get how sex can be private ~RJS~ Stockholm, Sweden 4528 posts
25th May '12

Okay, so it's been a long day, and it's late, so this might not make sense, but I just thought of this...



How can sex be a private thing, that should be kept between two people, when the products of sex walk the streets everyday. I mean, I'm the proof that my parents had sex, you are the proof that your parents had sex. KWIM? So just by existing we're saying "HEY, they had sex!" (well, now days you could also say "hey, your dad masturbated!").



I just find it a bit humorous that our very existance prove that people have sex, but despite everyone's parents having had sex, we still seem to believe it's something private.



And, the product of you having sex with someone is playing with someone else's product of sex.



It's like a big sex fest




random tired rant, but... yeah. WDYT? lol

D+S+G= ♥ 1 child; Alaska 29971 posts
25th May '12

I don't find sex to be private. I am veeery open about my sex life & so are all my friends/family.



ETA: However I don't want to see errbody butt ass naked boning in the middle of a parking lot or something.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75063 posts
25th May '12

I don't think the topic of sex should be kept private but yeah I think the act of sex should be in "private" or at least not you know, in front of Orange Julius in the mall or next to the slide at the park lol.

user banned 2 kids; Washington 17453 posts
25th May '12
Quoting Regina Phalange:" I don't think the topic of sex should be kept private but yeah I think the act of sex should be in "private" ... [snip!] ... should be in "private" or at least not you know, in front of Orange Julius in the mall or next to the slide at the park lol. "


Awww, you're no fun! :P

Mommie Dearest. Due September 17 (boy); 17 kids; Mississippi 1902 posts
25th May '12

I think ... there some people I don't want to look at and think sex fest.

Or think of what sex fest occured to produce that said person.

*puke*

But otherwise , I think you have a very valid point ;) People act like sex is so taboo , but the more I talk openly about things the more I learn!

~*~ Nichole ~*~ 4 kids; Vancouver, Washington 11261 posts
25th May '12
Quoting Regina Phalange:" I don't think the topic of sex should be kept private but yeah I think the act of sex should be in "private" ... [snip!] ... should be in "private" or at least not you know, in front of Orange Julius in the mall or next to the slide at the park lol. "


Agreed :lol:

user banned 1 child; New Orleans, Louisiana 18159 posts
25th May '12

Lol obviously sex happens but what you do while doing the deed... I don't want to know the details. The first thought that crossed my mind when dh and I announced the pregnancy with dd was "oh shit now everyone knows we have sex" LOL

~RJS~ Stockholm, Sweden 4528 posts
25th May '12
Quoting D+S+G= ♥:" I don't find sex to be private. I am veeery open about my sex life & so are all my friends/family. "


that's great, IMO. You should be open about it, because it is so important to talk about. This came from a girl that thinks sex ed should be taken from school because it's a "private thing" :roll:

K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
25th May '12

I don't think sex should be private. Obviously the act of sex yes, but the topic? It needs to be discussed. Kids are naive when it comes to sex and how things work. Sex ed needs to come back with a vengance. Hell some of teenagers don't even know about ovulation. "They did it once without a condom so they thought they couldn't get pregnant" :?

D+S+G= ♥ 1 child; Alaska 29971 posts
25th May '12
Quoting r e b e c c a:" that's great, IMO. You should be open about it, because it is so important to talk about. This came from a girl that thinks sex ed should be taken from school because it's a "private thing" :roll:"

Whaaat? WHY!?!?!

user banned 2 kids; Washington 17453 posts
25th May '12
Quoting r e b e c c a:" that's great, IMO. You should be open about it, because it is so important to talk about. This came from a girl that thinks sex ed should be taken from school because it's a "private thing" :roll:"


LOL



I didn't even pay attention in sex ed. I was way too busy with more important things. Like reading Harry Potter...

Piecey. Due May 13; 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 65316 posts
status 25th May '12

God. I don't know why but it made me think of this comic. I agree with what Regina said though.



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~RJS~ Stockholm, Sweden 4528 posts
25th May '12
Quoting RunsWithScissors:" Lol obviously sex happens but what you do while doing the deed... I don't want to know the details. The ... [snip!] ... thought that crossed my mind when dh and I announced the pregnancy with dd was "oh shit now everyone knows we have sex" LOL"


bahaha. That's what I'm thinking. Whenever someone announces a pregnancy it's like "oh, they had sex, okay". But I'm waaayyyy to fascinated by sex and conception and all that, so... xD I'll be very weirded out telling my parents I'm pregnant, haha, I'm going to think the same way

~RJS~ Stockholm, Sweden 4528 posts
25th May '12
Quoting D+S+G= ♥:" Whaaat? WHY!?!?! "


she's convinced everything was better before 1920. Because she saw a film that played out during that time

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75063 posts
25th May '12
Quoting r e b e c c a:" that's great, IMO. You should be open about it, because it is so important to talk about. This came from a girl that thinks sex ed should be taken from school because it's a "private thing" :roll:"

That's ridiculous lol.