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Absolutley FRIGHTENED.... PROUD_MOMMY_OF_TWO 18 kids; Chicago, Illinois 59 posts
25th May '12

Im a mother of two and i met this guy and we have managed to get pregnant and at first we agreed to have the baby and now some drama has entered our lives and now he has a change of heart and so do i kinda....im really scared ive never had this done and i am feeling all types of emotions...

* Sara * 2 kids; Texas 18864 posts
25th May '12

I'm sorry you are going through this. Maybe sit down with a pros and cons list? Good luck to you.

busy mommy Due July 21 (girl); 103 kids; Vancouver, Washington 486 posts
25th May '12
Quoting PROUD_MOMMY_OF_TWO:" Im a mother of two and i met this guy and we have managed to get pregnant and at first we agreed to have ... [snip!] ... has a change of heart and so do i kinda....im really scared ive never had this done and i am feeling all types of emotions..."


How far along are you? Im too tired to do the math!



Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36553 posts
25th May '12

Im sorry. If you plan to go thru with abortion you will be fine. You have to think of your other kids and how the future will look like. Dont let anyone pressure you into doing anything that you dont want to do.



Also... Just THROWING THIS OUT HERE...



Do pro and cons for you and your options. I dont know if adoption is an option or not but GL. :)

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
25th May '12

I'm sorry, i agree about sitting down and doing the pros and cons and just know that in the end you're doing what is best for your family and that's all that matters.

Gold 2 kids; Kakariko Village, Hyrule, HF, Togo 41685 posts
25th May '12

*Hugs* I'm sorry, hun.



I agree though, maybe sit down and make a list of the pros and cons and then decide which route is best for you.

Hodor Due October 30 (boy); 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Saint-janvier, QC, Canada 18195 posts
25th May '12
Quoting ♡♡:" I'm sorry, i agree about sitting down and doing the pros and cons and just know that in the end you're doing what is best for your family and that's all that matters."

All of this PLUS



Whatever decision you choose, make sure it is YOURS and not any one elses. I got pressured into an abortion when I was 18. I do not regret really having it done...but I do regret the fact I walked in there with doubts and pressure and not confident.

Nicola =) 1 child; Huntsville, Alabama 2783 posts
26th May '12

Obviously I don't know the drama and such that has changed. But in reading your information you were very excited about being pregnant with a third baby.



Everyone makes a great point about listing the pros and cons.
My advice would be to make sure that the decision you make is because you feel that is best for you and your other two children. If you make a choice based on outside influences you may regret that decision.



Good luck.

SingleMomSwagg♥ 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1397 posts
26th May '12

Just because he had a change of heart doesnt mean you have to. Its your body and ultimatly your baby.. So what if he doesnt want anything to do with that beauitful child..thats his loss.

busy mommy Due July 21 (girl); 103 kids; Vancouver, Washington 486 posts
26th May '12
Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" Just because he had a change of heart doesnt mean you have to. Its your body and ultimatly your baby.. So what if he doesnt want anything to do with that beauitful child..thats his loss."


THIS!!!

PROUD_MOMMY_OF_TWO 18 kids; Chicago, Illinois 59 posts
26th May '12
Quoting busy mommy:" How far along are you? Im too tired to do the math! "

about two months 8 weeks

Kate & Amanda Kuenzi Due November 17 (boy); 1 child; Imperial Beach, California 8 posts
26th May '12

Don't do it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36553 posts
26th May '12
Quoting Amanda McCullough:"



Read the rules of AS please.