your really have issues NEVER ONCE did i say anything to offend her at all women make their own choices whether it be adoption abortion hell women have thrown their babies in trash cans i am not here to judge anyone i simply gave my opinion!!! apparently you have some guilt eating at you and that is why if any one says anything on here you flip out im not that only person you have flipped out on and i didnt say anything wrong!!! there are a 100 messages just like mine and you didnt say anything!!! and please help me understand how saying abortion is something you cant take back and make sure you want to do it and not do it for what someone else whatts!!!! again i was simply stating MY OPINION AND YES I HAVE READ THE RULES I DIDNT BASH ANYONE OR DISRESPECT ANYONE AT ALL!!!!!!!!Quoting Link:" Delete this. You can not say this in here. This is for abortion. "
Quoting mistyquee dy'mon:" "
You cannot bring up adoption in this forum. Plain and simple.
And FYI, you should probably read an old thread in it's entirety before giving your opinion.
Quoting mistyquee dy'mon:" "
You brought up adoption which if you READ everything she didnt want to do.
I have placed my son for adoption too.
I modded you. Not her. I'm a mod and what you said was against the rules. This is a protected forum so please keep the drama OUT of this thread.
You're making things worse.....She's already made the decision and had the abortion, so you'd be best off deleting your comments and moving on.
Quoting 624582:" YOU will be the one who has to live with your choice, do not let anyone pressure you into anything you do not want to do."
im sorry your going through what your going through. I couldnt imagine...my personal view is NOT abortion. But thats just my preference. At the end of the day you have to think about what is best for you and your child. If you keep the baby yes it will be hard but remember that is still your child. You necessarily dont need him there to raise the baby. If you do decide to abort you may regret it or become very emotional or you may be perfectly fine. YOUR the one that has to live with the decision not anyone else. its all up to you. I wish you the best with whatever decision you make. Everything happens for a reason. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel
Please people, read the entire thread before giving your input. :idea:
Ok first of all HOW DENSE CAN YOU BE LOOKING FOR THIS SHIT?!?!?! It is in somewhere called abortion survivors... and there is UP TOP called "Read BEFORE posting"... holy fuck. Read people.
I dont believe in abortion its killing ur babies if u dont want them i would prefer adoption there are alot of people that cant have babies that would love ur babies!!good luck & hope u decide to do the right thing!!
Oh my fucking God.
The amount of complete idiots on this site astounds me.
Quoting Maeby♥:" Oh my fucking God. The amount of complete idiots on this site astounds me."
Right?! I don't understand why people are commenting on an old post with 9 pages, without reading the whole story. :?
Quoting Vindictive:" Right?! I don't understand why people are commenting on an old post with 9 pages, without reading the whole story. :?"
Why would they go onto a thing called abortion survivors? ffs.
I wish I had not had one either I wish I were stronger and did what I wanted to do I were I were still pregnant and have chosen any choice but this but it's the past there's nothing I can do now but mourn the choices I e made I feel like I was in a lot of ways pressured to do this but I made the final decision by not saying this wasn't what I wanted... I know I could have done it and I'll have to suffer for that everytime I have to see soneone has their kid and I domnt I'll have to live with knowing I let my babies get murdered because that's what everyone said was the rigt thing to do I'm weak I'm stupid and not worth bring a mom to anyone they didn't deserve me.. They didn't deserve this a.d I'll have to pay for that somejhoow.. I am the only one shaken completely by tis incident and I deserve it... Because I put myself in this and decided to do what I did I know I don.t even deserve to live I know it was horrible but whatl's done is done I can't do anything but greive what I did.
Like I said I am here to talk. I had an abortion in May 2011. I didn't want it, but I felt pressured into it by my husband. He just wanted me to have it so he could move on to someone else and treat me like absolute shit. After I got it I cried and cried because we had both actively tried for that baby. I felt like I should've told him no because I wanted the baby. I ever had a last minute chance at the clinic to say no, but I didn't because he made me feel it was the right things to do. I seriously wanted to die. Now looking at all that he has put me through in the last year fighting for our son I am glad I went through with the abortion. I couldn't imagine putting two kids through all this court BS and drama. I know right now you feel guilty and think you made the wrong decision maybe one day you will see it was right. I really hope you heal from all of this.