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MommyofAlex&(almost)Aiden 2 kids; GARDNERS, Pennsylvania 1408 posts
29th May '12

Rectocele isn't THAT bad. I mean, its bad, but its not crazy horrible. It can be repaired. I have mild rectocele from (tmi...) literally being constipated and straining my WHOLE life. It's pretty annoying and I'm sure it will get worse after the birth of my next baby, but I know it can be repaired. The complications of child birth would be the bulge getting in the way of the baby and it tearing, but even that can be somewhat prevented or made aware of.

*Bun #2 baking* Due January 21; 49 kids; Winston-Salem, North Carolina 1149 posts
29th May '12

Stressing out over it will cause your period to be late if you aren't pregnant. Take the test and see, good luck :) I hope it works out you want it to.

Mamma22 Wisconsin 1295 posts
29th May '12

I'm sorry mama. :( Maybe if you are and they do a C-section everything would be okay. Now I'm worried b/c I have lots of pressure down there and have problems going #2. I tore really bad when I had DD but I haven't went to the Dr to get it checked. :( I just assumed it was endometriosis (I have no idea how to spell it) since it runs in my family. I hope everything works out for you mama!

ShesAbstrakt 1 child; Maryland 1116 posts
29th May '12
Quoting Sara Scheffler:" Rectocele isn't THAT bad. I mean, its bad, but its not crazy horrible. It can be repaired. I have mild ... [snip!] ... would be the bulge getting in the way of the baby and it tearing, but even that can be somewhat prevented or made aware of. "

That is true, but I have other issues that have to do with my head. The both of them together, is just really stressful at the moment.

MommyofAlex&(almost)Aiden 2 kids; GARDNERS, Pennsylvania 1408 posts
29th May '12
Quoting Mara Jade's Momma:" I'm sorry mama. :( Maybe if you are and they do a C-section everything would be okay. Now I'm worried ... [snip!] ... it was endometriosis (I have no idea how to spell it) since it runs in my family. I hope everything works out for you mama!"



Could be mild rectocele. Sounds weird, but when you go, feel inside your vagina and if you feel a hard bulge and can't poo, thats the poop. The reason you can't go is because it kind of gets stuck in the loose tissue between the rectum and vagina. If you push on it a little and then try and go, it works out better. Not a lot of people talk about it, but A LOT of people have it and just don't know it because of embarrassment.

ShesAbstrakt 1 child; Maryland 1116 posts
29th May '12
Quoting Mara Jade's Momma:" I'm sorry mama. :( Maybe if you are and they do a C-section everything would be okay. Now I'm worried ... [snip!] ... it was endometriosis (I have no idea how to spell it) since it runs in my family. I hope everything works out for you mama!"


Thank you. I had a pretty bad episiotomy...Im not afriad that I am going to die from a rectocele but I'm already in pain all the time now.

.nnnb British Columbia 18155 posts
29th May '12
Quoting The Beez Kneez:" Thank you. I had a pretty bad episiotomy...Im not afriad that I am going to die from a rectocele but I'm already in pain all the time now."


what do you think you are going to die from?

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49023 posts
29th May '12

if thats ur best choice good luck...



However take the test first and find out



Also prolaspse's are fairly common any more.



I wish u the best of luck.

Coño Due May 7; 1 child; Virginia 890 posts
29th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Beez Kneez:</b>" I wanted to wait to see if my period was just late...but yea, it was a pretty dumb decision because the sooner the better."</blockquote>




No not dumb I've waited a while before with taking tests myself! I just don't want you to be worried and/or stressing over nothing, you know?

Mamma22 Wisconsin 1295 posts
29th May '12
Quoting Sara Scheffler:" Could be mild rectocele. Sounds weird, but when you go, feel inside your vagina and if you feel a ... [snip!] ... out better. Not a lot of people talk about it, but A LOT of people have it and just don't know it because of embarrassment. "


phew, that makes me feel better to know that it's common! Thanks mama!

ShesAbstrakt 1 child; Maryland 1116 posts
29th May '12
Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" what do you think you are going to die from?"


Abortion complications....Like sepsis or something. Hypocrondriac (sp) about it since my sister died from that. Not from an abortion though.

ShesAbstrakt 1 child; Maryland 1116 posts
29th May '12
double post, sorry.
ShesAbstrakt 1 child; Maryland 1116 posts
29th May '12
Quoting Co
taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49023 posts
29th May '12
Quoting The Beez Kneez:" "



sepsis most of the time can be cought before people get very sick they just do not get checked.



My SO had had a blood infection that was so bad that they told me before they put him in the ICU they did not expect him to make it out alive in the ER, and if he did I would have to decide putting him on life support or not.

Coño Due May 7; 1 child; Virginia 890 posts
29th May '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Beez Kneez:</b>" Yea, the smart thing would be to just take a test lol. Ima do it atttt like 8. Just really afraid."</blockquote>



I understand. Good luck, keep us updated!