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anyone else... E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
6th Jun '12

I was wondering if anyone else was offered a scan photo when they went to find out how far along they were?



I was, I watched my baby on the ultrasound screen. I kept the photo. I think that seeing my baby is what has made it so hard to move on. Four years later and I am still grieving. (The abortion wasn't my choice, I was 15 my parents arranged it).



I can't move on. I don't really know what to do about it. I can't sit around feeling sorry for myself, I have a baby on the way now. But I think that's what's making me think about it so much now. Is it wrong for me to grieve for a baby that I allowed someone to take from me? Ughhhhhh.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
6th Jun '12

I got two pics at mine. They asked if I wanted it I said sure. About 2-3months After I threw them away.

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
6th Jun '12

Probably what I should do too. I just can't bring myself to.

~RJ~DG~AS~ 4 kids; Conroe, Texas 16669 posts
6th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ellie Shikari:</b>" Probably what I should do too. I just can't bring myself to."</blockquote>




For me it was an easy choice to do it. I was using condoms so I wouldn't get pregnant because I couldn't be pregnant and take the meds I needed so my only choice was to terminate. I thought me momento would be nice but then it made me dwell on it and I couldn't get better so I crumpled the pics and tossed them after that I never really had any hang ups about it

ColorRed Colorado Springs, Colorado 3 posts
8th Jun '12

Hi Ellie,
I

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
8th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ColorRed:</b>" Hi Ellie, I