I was wondering if anyone else was offered a scan photo when they went to find out how far along they were?
I was, I watched my baby on the ultrasound screen. I kept the photo. I think that seeing my baby is what has made it so hard to move on. Four years later and I am still grieving. (The abortion wasn't my choice, I was 15 my parents arranged it).
I can't move on. I don't really know what to do about it. I can't sit around feeling sorry for myself, I have a baby on the way now. But I think that's what's making me think about it so much now. Is it wrong for me to grieve for a baby that I allowed someone to take from me? Ughhhhhh.
I got two pics at mine. They asked if I wanted it I said sure. About 2-3months After I threw them away.
Probably what I should do too. I just can't bring myself to.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ellie Shikari:</b>" Probably what I should do too. I just can't bring myself to."</blockquote>
For me it was an easy choice to do it. I was using condoms so I wouldn't get pregnant because I couldn't be pregnant and take the meds I needed so my only choice was to terminate. I thought me momento would be nice but then it made me dwell on it and I couldn't get better so I crumpled the pics and tossed them after that I never really had any hang ups about it