♥BakedACake♥ 2 kids; Hillsboro, Missouri 2964 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Freckles Ford:" Was the baby okay? "


Yeah. Took into protective custody and the mother went to jail. Thank God someone saw the child in the car. She went in to get a few items and was coming right back. Or so she told police. It'll all happened within 15 minutes or so but even that could have been harmful.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Whatsarahsaid:" I am not a mom but I am going to comment hope that is okay, anyway to me some moms are just too quick ... [snip!] ... just think people have no right to really say who should be a parent and who should not ...but that is just my opinion haha :)"


MOMS ONLY. We don't count. Lol. -_-

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2400 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting preggosrthebestest:" MOMS ONLY PLEASE I wanted to know what some of you thought about this Can a mother better say whether ... [snip!] ... kids they know what you need or what it takes and how serious motherhood or parenthood actually is what is your take on this?"


there is a difference if the mother is a good mom or not. I honestly can say If a mother was neglecting her children then she shouldn't be able to parent her children but she would still and always will be their mother. ... ok here goes,
my fiance' his older childern their mother is a complete nut case. She ALLOWED her boyfriend to beat My fiance' and her son at 3 years old beat him in his testicles until they were black and blue and the size of grapefruits! seriously who beats a 3 yr old. and the boyfriend would lock him in a dark closet as well. ( the mom admitted in court she knew nothing of this) really??? then she admitted that she knew about it but was scared) really if some dumb smurf was hurting my child you better be damn straight im beating that mother smurfers you know what ... and get this... the courts took the kids out of a stable home and let them go back to live with her ( my fiance"s parents home)... Honestly I dont think she should be able to parent her children after allowing that. It really breaks my heart. errrr... sry.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting ♥MommyToAGingerBoy:" Yeah. Took into protective custody and the mother went to jail. Thank God someone saw the child in the ... [snip!] ... was coming right back. Or so she told police. It'll all happened within 15 minutes or so but even that could have been harmful."


God I can't even stand being in the car with the AC blasting lately, it's so hot. Poor baby.

lovebeingpregnant Boston, 138 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Dexter Morgan:</b>" Yes, I think so. Someone who has experience ... [snip!] ... think if you're not a mother yet you can't really understand what it truly takes. Lol off topic but :shock: nice bewbs lol."



yup

Rebekah 2 kids; Tennessee 5556 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Mrs. Dexter Morgan:" Haha thank you. And not off topic, my boobs are always a topic :lol:"


Your bewbs make mine mega jealous.

kravenscookiejar 18 kids; Surprise, Arizona 20749 posts
9th Jun '12

No.



Being a mother makes you truly understand what it means to BE a mother.



It does not qualify you to judge whether or not someone else is ready to take on that role. You have no idea how they'd handle that. After all, you were once a non-mother too, and you came around, didn't you?



The best practice is to keep your nose out of the uterus of others.

lovebeingpregnant Boston, 138 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Whatsarahsaid:" I am not a mom but I am going to comment hope that is okay, anyway to me some moms are just too quick ... [snip!] ... just think people have no right to really say who should be a parent and who should not ...but that is just my opinion haha :)"



I am actually very impressed with this comment BUT will say I as a mom will tell a girl she is not ready and ask her what she is doing because i know what it is like to have a child and i really do know if someone is ready or not yes i overanalyze but we should having a child is very serious

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting preggosrthebestest:" I am actually very impressed with this comment BUT will say I as a mom will tell a girl she is not ... [snip!] ... to have a child and i really do know if someone is ready or not yes i overanalyze but we should having a child is very serious"


You shouldn't tell people they're not ready to be a mom. That's... rude. I'm sure you wouldn't have liked it if someone said that to you.

Whatsarahsaid Japan 708 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting preggosrthebestest:" I am actually very impressed with this comment BUT will say I as a mom will tell a girl she is not ... [snip!] ... to have a child and i really do know if someone is ready or not yes i overanalyze but we should having a child is very serious"


Thanks but you are wrong, it is hurtful and only makes you look like a mega bitch who thinks only she is worthy of motherhood when you do this because you can admit you are are not always in an ideal spot as a mother.. so why do you have children?



we planned our pregnancy and of course things are not perfect but does not mean we are not "suited" for motherhood ... just means we will learn as we go same as you



to me moms want to act like only they are worthy and it is alitle on the nutty side to me bcause... why do you care what another woman does lol you want to make youself feel that important?

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2400 posts
9th Jun '12

heck the other day my co-worker said to me... I wasnt sure how good of a mother you would make... but you are a pretty good little mother. I was like uhh.... thank you. lol

lovebeingpregnant Boston, 138 posts
9th Jun '12

I want the best for the baby that is all and i am going to continue to tell girls and women they are not ready hoping she will listen some ladies really are not ready and have no business have a child. it is very serious and i do not do this to make myself feel better like only i am good enough i do it for the child.

Whatsarahsaid Japan 708 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Leland makes Three =]:" heck the other day my co-worker said to me... I wasnt sure how good of a mother you would make... but you are a pretty good little mother. I was like uhh.... thank you. lol"


Lmao I do not get why people think they can say stuff like that to people lol bunch of crazies

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting preggosrthebestest:" I want the best for the baby that is all and i am going to continue to tell girls and women they are ... [snip!] ... a child. it is very serious and i do not do this to make myself feel better like only i am good enough i do it for the child."


No offense but you sound incredibly snotty... who are you to decide who is ready to be a mother? :?

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2400 posts
9th Jun '12
Quoting Whatsarahsaid:" Lmao I do not get why people think they can say stuff like that to people lol bunch of crazies"


tell me about it...