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user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
11th Jun '12

please do not get an abortion if it not your choice 100%!!!!




he needs to get a vasectomy ffs

babynumbertwo06 Japan 6 posts
11th Jun '12

Ive gotten pregnant on multiple birth controls, pills, IUD, and ring. THe doctor says im really highly fertile.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting babynumbertwo06:" Hi everyone, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have a 5 year old daughter (not his) and he ... [snip!] ... hes going to leave me if i decide to keep the baby. His last 3 kids werent planned (last 2 being twins) i just dont get this :("


The choice is yours. Keep in mind though that you may end up doing this alone, with no help, no money, nothing. Be prepared for the worst. I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who has that many kids and keeps knocking me up. I suggest you just leave him and raise that kid alone...

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
11th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting wilde_mommy:</b>" If you don't want to have an abortion then don't, but if you decide to have this baby and he leaves let ... [snip!] ... need to get in the habit of using birth control, that way you don't have to keep putting your body and emotions through this."</blockquote>




It's harder on u your body to have 6 kids than it is to have 6 abortions

Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom 2 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 14528 posts
11th Jun '12

Holy f**king constant conception, Batman!



:shock:

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting blank page:" The choice is yours. Keep in mind though that you may end up doing this alone, with no help, no money, ... [snip!] ... to be with someone who has that many kids and keeps knocking me up. I suggest you just leave him and raise that kid alone..."


you may want to keep this child and then get something permanent like your tubes tied.

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting wilde_mommy:" If you don't want to have an abortion then don't, but if you decide to have this baby and he leaves let ... [snip!] ... need to get in the habit of using birth control, that way you don't have to keep putting your body and emotions through this."


Child birth is harder on you than abortion is. :?

user banned TTC since Jan 2001; Japan 107255 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting Shannonsfirst:" you may want to keep this child and then get something permanent like your tubes tied. "


Who says she doesn't want kids later on?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting Vivacious:" <blockquote><b>Quoting wilde_mommy:</b>" If you don't want to have an abortion then ... [snip!] ... and emotions through this."</blockquote> It's harder on u your body to have 6 kids than it is to have 6 abortions"


!!!!!!

Crystal Mom of 4 4 kids; New York 6309 posts
11th Jun '12

He doesn't get to make that decision for you. It's your body. If you don't want an abortion then don't get one. If he doesn't want more kids he should go and get a vasectomy.

kaitlinnegy 65 kids; Waldorf, Maryland 5344 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting babynumbertwo06:" Ive gotten pregnant on multiple birth controls, pills, IUD, and ring. THe doctor says im really highly fertile."


have you tried implanon.



i got pregnant on birth control as well unfortunately ended in miscarriage each time.
implanon is working great for me!
and have him wrap it of course (ik thats not 100% either as well my daughter is a condom baby) make sure he pulls out if you dont use condoms. avoid sex during ovulation..

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting Shannonsfirst:" you may want to keep this child and then get something permanent like your tubes tied. "


She only has 1 kid... What if she wnats kids later on?



Its either God or Satan who has the same problem as she does...



I would never tell someone to get their tubes tied because they had so many abortions...

wilde_mommy 4 kids; Columbus, Ohio 3459 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting blank page:" Child birth is harder on you than abortion is. :?"


But I also said hard on her emotions, I was not just talking about her physically. And yes too many abortions or a botched abortion can be very bad on your body. My sister best friend had an abortion, they totally screwed up and she had to end up getting surgery to correct her uterus. Yes I know that is extremely rare but it can happen.

babynumbertwo06 Japan 6 posts
11th Jun '12

Ive told him i dont want one, and that im keeping the baby and he says sorry no your not. its going to ruin us. I keep saying only if you let it ruin us.



I dont get him, he has 4 kids with a woman who doesnt take care of her kids (he has them all the time) , but yet i take care of my kid by myself and he knows im not going anywhere

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49057 posts
11th Jun '12
Quoting blank page:" Child birth is harder on you than abortion is. :?"


No the f**k it is not i had an emergency d and c after i delivered my daughter last week. I feel 384753265907 times worse then delivering my son and getting stiches. http://www.abortiontruths.net/abortionvschildbirth.html




But OP do what u want not what he wants. Its your body your choice. My SO wants more kids I do not. I am going on birth control if we get on our feet and he wants more then we will look into it... I suggest if u want no more kids get ur tubes tied.