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lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" So, not cloth related. But I know lots of you ladies are crunchy so I'm hoping at least one of you wouldn't/didn't ... [snip!] ... did you find your husband? Can I get a copy? I'm having a hard time finding a man in my area who isn't dead set on circ'ing."</blockquote>



Sam always said if he had a boy he'd do it cause he is. But that was many yra ago and luckily we haven't had boys to bother with the issue again. But IF I ever have another child and they were a boy I'd definitely show him some info on not doing it. I think he'd go along with it cause so far he has always trusted my mom instinct and respects my crunchy ideals haha. Plus he knows all of my decisions with our children are out of love and for their best interest. So I think he'd rust my judgement. Haven't gone wrong yet :)

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" Aww. I'm going to die alone with my cats. "</blockquote>



Nag! I met Sam on rent.com when we were both on the search for a roommate haha. It wasn't until a yr after we met that we actually talked a lot and got to know Each other cause he had a psycho gf haha.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BunnyGirl19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moses.:</b>" Both of our boys are circ'd. However, DH is always ... [snip!] ... by Mogan. And I can actually tell by looking at a p***s if they've had Gomco or not. How's that for a fun party game?! LOL"</blockquote>




:shock: I didn't know there were so many circs haha!!



Random quote here for my random story but my uncle got circumsized in his 40s haha. Just his personal choice after joining a nudist colony haha

CL & DJs Mommy 3 kids; Georgia 6451 posts
Jan 8th '13

DS isn't circ'd because SO isn't. It took a long time to come to this decision and my family gave me lots of shit for it, we were only 18. *shrugs*
New baby won't be and now I'm completely confident in our decision.
I met SO in high school lol

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" So, not cloth related. But I know lots ... [snip!] ... with our children are out of love and for their best interest. So I think he'd rust my judgement. Haven't gone wrong yet :)"</blockquote>




Aw. I wish I could find a man that trusted my instincts. Long story short, I've dated one guy that was flexible on circing, he was a really great guy and I'm still hung up on him. Parenting the way I like is basically the only thing on my list of must-haves in a guy, I'm flexible on everything else. But I'm scared I'll never find that in anyone and I'll die alone with my cats.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CL & DJs Mommy:</b>" DS isn't circ'd because SO isn't. It took a long time to come to this decision and my family gave me ... [snip!] ... it, we were only 18. *shrugs* New baby won't be and now I'm completely confident in our decision. I met SO in high school lol"</blockquote>




My ex isn't circ'd either, that's why he's against it. We also met in high school. ITS A SIGN. :lol: I have a picture of us in high school and one after I had dd, if you guys wanna see how cute we were lol

CL & DJs Mommy 3 kids; Georgia 6451 posts
Jan 8th '13
Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CL & DJs Mommy:</b>" DS isn't circ'd because SO isn't. It took ... [snip!] ... ITS A SIGN. :lol: I have a picture of us in high school and one after I had dd, if you guys wanna see how cute we were lol"


Lol SO won't take a pic to save his life. I have all ouur old pics on myspace lol. He goes with most of my parenting decisions, but he is kinda crunchy so theres never really an issue. Like CD, all I had to do was tell him it saved money and show him cute diapers and he was all for it.



I'd love to see how cute ya'll were :)

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CL & DJs Mommy:</b>" DS isn't circ'd because SO isn't. It took ... [snip!] ... ITS A SIGN. :lol: I have a picture of us in high school and one after I had dd, if you guys wanna see how cute we were lol"</blockquote>



Is that your BD? What happened berween you two?

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CL & ... [snip!] ... after I had dd, if you guys wanna see how cute we were lol"</blockquote> Is that your BD? What happened berween you two?"</blockquote>




No he's not my BD. This ex is the guy I dated after bd. I actually dated him while I was pregnant and he stayed the night with me in the hospital when dd was born.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" ... [snip!] ... I dated after bd. I actually dated him while I was pregnant and he stayed the night with me in the hospital when dd was born."</blockquote>



:( what happened to BD and the ex?

Hy'ska 2 kids; Your mom, WA, United States 50865 posts
Jan 8th '13

Meh both my kids are circ'd I've made every other decision and held my ground I let Hans have that one. Vaccinations and breastfeeding were my deal breakers.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Jan 8th '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" ... [snip!] ... and he stayed the night with me in the hospital when dd was born."</blockquote> :( what happened to BD and the ex?"

BD is a really dangerous person that I stay far. far away from for the safety of myself and DD.
My ex is a really great guy and everything, but we were having some problems, then I shit out a baby and he deployed. Bad timing. I had/have really bad PPD and I couldn't handle the separation, I needed to work on myself, so I broke up with him. Stupidest thing I've done since LO was born, and I regret it but I think it needed to happen. We talk about getting back together when he gets back, if he decides not to re-sign his contract when it expires.




This was us in high school. I was a sophomore and he was a senior
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This was us after DD was born. I know I look like crap, I just had a baby.
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drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Jan 8th '13
Quoting Brink:" Meh both my kids are circ'd I've made every other decision and held my ground I let Hans have that one. Vaccinations and breastfeeding were my deal breakers."

I think I could go either way on vaxing, but breast feeding and circing are my deal breakers. I think I'm spoiled though, being a single mom. I get to do everything my way and I can't imagine it any other way.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" BD is a really dangerous person that I stay far. far away from for the safety of myself and DD. My ex ... [snip!] ... school. I was a sophomore and he was a senior This was us after DD was born. I know I look like crap, I just had a baby. "</blockquote>



Awwe :) this made me giddy :) I hope you two can work things out when the time is right. *hugs*

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
Jan 8th '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:</b>" BD is a really dangerous person that I ... [snip!] ... a baby. "</blockquote> Awwe :) this made me giddy :) I hope you two can work things out when the time is right. *hugs*"

<3 thanks. I hope we can, too. He really is great with DD, as much as he can be for being deployed. He used to rub my tummy and stuff when I was pregnant, I know he kinda things of her as his own. Even if things don't work out between us, I know DD will always have a father figure.