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user banned Due December 12 (twins); 17 kids; Mississippi 49 posts
Jun 17th '12

Tell so they can no right away it's best

-ChElSeY- 17 kids; Ontario 105 posts
Jun 18th '12

tell your mom!
i got pregnant at 17, and didnt find out until after my 18th birthday. already 4 months along. i got morning sickness. i didnt tell my mom. a few weeks later she took me to the doctor because she noticed that i was getting sick off and on. the doc said i was pregnant and my mom was in shock but i knew already. i told her me and SO planned on an abortion and she got upset. more about the abortion than i was pregnant. we decided against it in the end and now we have a beautiful 2 month old girl. abortion might be the right way to go for you, it just wasn't for me. it all depends on whats best for you and the baby. you should definitely tell your mom though. you shouldnt have to be alone in this. even if you dont get a lot of support just telling your mom will make you feel so much better. too much stress isnt good for you or the baby.
best of luck!

Candace Holmes Due March 8 (girl); USA 24 posts
Jun 19th '12

Anytime you have sex, protected or not you should always be worried because there is ALWAYS a chance.. this is why, if you dont want to get pregnant at a young age, then dont have sex at one.. if youre not mature enough to take care of a child then youre not mature enough to have sex. Your mom was right to lose all hope in you and your sister because you were proving her right by having sex. I dont feel bad for you like everyone else on here, you made the mistake by having sex, you will have to live with the consequences. All i can say is before you f**k up your life even more, give that poor child up for adoption and give it a good chance at life with a family that can provide for it before it grows up and makes the same mistakes you did.

Candace Holmes Due March 8 (girl); USA 24 posts
Jun 19th '12

You might aswell just go tell your mom right now, she wont treat you any different than she did your sisters, to her youll just be another pregnant daughter. Im sure shes used to it. Your mom made the same mistake, and all her kids followed in her footsteps. Be the smarter child and give your baby to a real couple so it wont do this to and can have a chance at a full, happy, accomplished life.

KelsConroy Due March 22; TTC since Jul 2015; 2 kids; West Blocton, Alabama 175 posts
Jun 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:</b>" But do I tell my mom that He's the father? Because my friends have other ideas on that. Like telling ... [snip!] ... TOO young. I just turned 15 a month ago and all this stress is causing me pain that I'm just not strong enough to handle..."</blockquote>




I would tell the whole truth. You wouldn't want that guilt hanging over your head. Good luck.

Account Deleted101 Texas 14 posts
Jun 20th '12
Quoting Candace Holmes:" You might aswell just go tell your mom right now, she wont treat you any different than she did your ... [snip!] ... child and give your baby to a real couple so it wont do this to and can have a chance at a full, happy, accomplished life."

i think about that ever day. and everyday im even more convinced to give my baby up for adoption. im 15 and i know that when the baby is born it wont get easier in fact it gets way harder than this. i dont want to drop out of school and i want to graduate and go to college to be a tattoo artist. or go to stanford univ. or the art institute of houston. theres so much more i want for my life and yes i love my baby to death even though it doesnt even have arms or legs yet. but i want the best.... not just for me but for my baby. i refuse for my baby to grow up in the same house and in the same way that i did and just be okay with it. becuz when i look at me now, i hate who i am and how i feel becuz i dont have my father in my life. i dont want to be the reason my child has to survive instead of live...

I'mMom 4 kids; Louisiana 209 posts
Jun 20th '12
Quoting .::Mommy In 2013::.:" i think about that ever day. and everyday im even more convinced to give my baby up for adoption. im ... [snip!] ... and how i feel becuz i dont have my father in my life. i dont want to be the reason my child has to survive instead of live..."


This made me smile. It seems like you know what's right. Finish school and follow your dreams girl! Then you will meet a wonderful man that spoils you, you guys will get married, and have a happy baby! :)

Amber Shamblin11 5 kids; Charleston, West Virginia 304 posts
Jun 20th '12

poor babydoll...idk what to tell ya but best of luck and wishes to ya...i hope ur family will be easy on ya and if they didnt want this to happen then they shouldve taught u a lil bit more bout safe sex but then again u shouldve worn a raincoat...

Account Deleted101 Texas 14 posts
Jun 21st '12
Quoting Amber Shamblin11:" poor babydoll...idk what to tell ya but best of luck and wishes to ya...i hope ur family will be easy ... [snip!] ... didnt want this to happen then they shouldve taught u a lil bit more bout safe sex but then again u shouldve worn a raincoat..."

Ha.. Wow I've never heard it really put that way before. LoL. I know my mom can't really just walk in and make me stop having sex. But my mom believed that if she told me not to do something that i just would want to do it more. And she's right. thats how all teenagers are today. But with me being molested a lot as a very young child she just thought i wouldn't but my counselor says that,, that just makes me believe that thats what guys want and thats what it will take to make them happy because after my childhood was over, every boyfriend i had only wanted sex from me.and they'd be the first to admit it too. I never quite understood it. but yeah. Life wasn't always on my side, i can sure say that. A tough girl like me doesn't know how to be hurt... So i try my damn hardest to take it one day at a time...