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my son wont let me have sex... I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
13th Jun '12

haha that is the worst title but its true.

our daughters are away at VBS all week, and every night, he refuses to go to bed until 11 or 12 which is wayyy to late for me still to have enough energy to "do it" as SO puts it... he fights and flips and wiggles and will just not go to sleep. he is also entering that lovely seperation anxiety stage so screams whenever me or his dad leave the room.

he is also teething.

i just wanna have sex!!! i thought tonight FOR SURE wed have sex because he had a DR apt and physical therapy so he should be exhausted.. but nope.. he wont sleep, and its 1015 now.

gah

pointless post

Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em) 2 kids; Alabama 16920 posts
13th Jun '12

how old is he? Can you just put him in the crib and then have sex? (If the crib is in your room can you go to another room? lol

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
13th Jun '12

I went through that. :( My son is 22 months old and I still don't get to have sex often but he is a little bit more adjusted to sleeping and usually if I start right after he goes to sleep at night he doesn't wake up before we are finished. He is teething right now also. He went through one teething phase where we pretty much rarely had sex because he'd wake up right in the middle and it would kill the mood. Hopefully you will get to have sex soon!! :(

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 75835 posts
13th Jun '12

How old is he?

Deborah Stechschulte 3 kids; Ohio 2565 posts
13th Jun '12

Sounds like you should get lost in the bathroom




my SO and I would do that from time to time - sneak off for a quickie in the bathroom during a movie

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
13th Jun '12

Quoting Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em):" how old is he? Can you just put him in the crib and then have sex? (If the crib is in your room can you go to another room? lol"




the crib is in our room, but we do have a spare room with a bed.. however, him screaming the whole time will definatly kill the mood haha

he is 6.5 months

Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em) 2 kids; Alabama 16920 posts
13th Jun '12
Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" the crib is in our room, but we do have a spare room with a bed.. however, him screaming the whole time will definatly kill the mood haha he is 6.5 months"


My youngest is 5 months and normally if we do it at night we have to wait til our 3 year old is good and asleep and right after Harper goes down or we put Harper in her walker upstairs (since that is were we go..lol) and sit her in front of the TV with cartoons (if she is still awake). But since Harper gets up a million times a night our sex life is very minimal at the moment b/c i normally choose sleep over sex..lol

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
13th Jun '12
Quoting Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em):" My youngest is 5 months and normally if we do it at night we have to wait til our 3 year old is good ... [snip!] ... Harper gets up a million times a night our sex life is very minimal at the moment b/c i normally choose sleep over sex..lol"


yeah he gets up a million times a night too, which is why by 11, i know im not going to wanna have sex, because i choose sleep over sex at that point too lol.

its so frustrating tho UGH. the one week we dont have our other 2 kids, and he wont let us have sex even once.. he is currently slapping his dad in the face and laughing as his dad is trying to rock him to sleep LOL omg..

Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em) 2 kids; Alabama 16920 posts
13th Jun '12
Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" yeah he gets up a million times a night too, which is why by 11, i know im not going to wanna have ... [snip!] ... sex even once.. he is currently slapping his dad in the face and laughing as his dad is trying to rock him to sleep LOL omg.."


They are just little cock blockers..lol Hope you get some sooner rather than later. My husband came home at lunch so we had the opportunity since our oldest was at moms morning out til 1:00.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
13th Jun '12
Quoting Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em):" They are just little cock blockers..lol Hope you get some sooner rather than later. My husband came home at lunch so we had the opportunity since our oldest was at moms morning out til 1:00."


haha thanks, and lucky you.

btw, LOVE your daughters names :)