Bubbles. 1 child; New York 1270 posts
14th Jun '12

Just f**king leave then, If I was that child I would want you around anyway.
and in my opinion you're a p***e o* s**t.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
14th Jun '12

If this is not the life you want, then I suggest leaving your boyfriend, because like it or not, his child comes with him.

Bubbles. 1 child; New York 1270 posts
14th Jun '12
Quoting MilliesMommy
Jenny&Boopy TTC since Jul 2014; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7326 posts
status 14th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stu Padasso:</b>" His child isn't going anywhere so either you need to learn how to love him and accept him as a part of your boyfriend's life or move on."</blockquote>




This!!!!! Either learn to accept the child or f**king leave. Do you expect your bf to choose you and your baby over this kid? Because if so that's fucked up! Maybe you should've thought about this before getting knocked up by a guy who has a child already. If the mom really does baby him, maybe you should grow the f**k up yourself and teach him how to do these things! Ffs it's not the kids fault if nobody ever showed him how to do things. He's too needy for you :roll: ummm wtf do you think a newborn is going to be like?! You better learn some damn patience and understanding before your baby gets here. SMH, way to be a jackass!

.nnnb British Columbia 18155 posts
14th Jun '12
Quoting LoBrew:" What the f**k? I understand if you're stressed out about the lack of discipline but this child is what, ... [snip!] ... is a baaad sign. It's fine to not care for him but to say that he's a brat and all else that you said is questionable."


not to mention he probably picks up on the fact that she hates him... and gets super clingy when daddy gets home. Way to perpetuate the problem, OP

Fatty McRunnerPants 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Clearlake, California 59390 posts
14th Jun '12

My 5 year old can't buckle himself in or wipe his own ass either. It's called being a f**king five year old.



I suggest you get the f**k out of that house as quickly as possible before you cause damage to that child because you're an ignorant fool.

noah's mommy:) Due October 7 (girl); 1 child; Lexington, South Carolina 216 posts
14th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~Lmnop~~:</b>" Your a f**king c**t. I hope your bf gets smart and gets rid of you and takes his kid with him. You shouldn't be around any child with that attitude."</blockquote>




:)
oh you said it perfectly!

marissa55 1 child; Tennessee 48 posts
14th Jun '12

ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he thinks its cute to be annoying and bf falls for it. he shit in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here

Kelly +2 ERF/EH! 18 kids; Valdosta, Georgia 18072 posts
14th Jun '12
Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he shit in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"

I'm sure you've never said "Hey shug, I absolutely hate your child"

.nnnb British Columbia 18155 posts
14th Jun '12

"anyways im 6 months pregnant and ill be damned before our kid tries acting like that"



bahaha this girl is in for such a wake up call. You havent met your child yet so how the f**k would you know what he/she will be trying to act like?



I read this quote on Pinterest one day that really stuck with me. It said something like "Whenever your child is having a tantrum, remember he is not giving you a hard time, the child is having a hard time." So write that down on a piece of paper, stick it in a really thick heavy book, and bang yourself over the head with it. becuase your a total b***h.

Jenny&Boopy TTC since Jul 2014; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7326 posts
status 14th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting marissa55:</b>" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he shit in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"</blockquote>




Well either one, take him to the doctor if you're so "concerned" about his behavior. Or two, f**king show him how to do these things! The poor kid probably realizes you hate him so he's upset! I doubt your bf knows you hate his kid, if he's any kind of father then he should have booted your ass for that!

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
14th Jun '12
Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he shit in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"


Children who poop/pee themselves at that age usually have a problem, whether mental, physical... or they're being abused by someone. By the way you talk about him, I would feel safe to say he's suffering some emotional abuse by you.



The situation is terribly unhealthy for that child and for you. I strongly suggest leaving before things get worse.

rubberduck_smith 2 kids; Elizabeth City, North Carolina 295 posts
14th Jun '12

unreal! are you serious, you just said you hate this kid?! i have 3 stepbabies and i have been around since they were 4, 2, and 10 months! they have a shitty mother! and although they test me sometimes, i love them with all my heart! i have taught them to tie shoes, potty trained the youngest, taught them to count and spell, etc! they are children, if they are never taught- they dont know! and with the way you hate this kid, of course he will cling to his dad when he gets home- finally someone there that loves him! you suck and dont deserve to be around that little boy! you should have thought all this through before you got with a man that had children from prior relationships, let alone get knocked up by the same! you suck! shame on you!

noah's mommy:) Due October 7 (girl); 1 child; Lexington, South Carolina 216 posts
14th Jun '12

Well maybe it's time for you to step up and act like a parent... Take him to be evaluated. Maybe there is something wrong with him.. acting like a complete b***h towards him doesnt do anything but perpetuate the problems. Poor kid! If you don't wanna put up with it then leave and give your BF the baby when you have it, obviously you lack the mothering gene.

Bubbles. 1 child; New York 1270 posts
14th Jun '12
Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he shit in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"


Do that child a favor and leave, hes way better off without you, Obviously.