kravenscookiejar 18 kids; Surprise, Arizona 20749 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting Nichole Melius:" oh yeah your a faker, I have made up illnessess to, like asthma, Anemia, diabeties, oh yeah, and I almost ... [snip!] ... like everytime I read read something really stupid I look at who saying it and go oh that's a freaking shocker it's her again"


I'm sorry. I also have diabetes and chronic pancreatitis. *hugs*

Nichole Warner Due December 6; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Torrington, Connecticut 1644 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting kravenscookiejar:" I'm sorry. I also have diabetes and chronic pancreatitis. *hugs*"


oh you faker lol. But the pancreas is good these days but I truly should not be here I was in real bad shape, Dr told me I'd be dead with in 3 days that was after I'd already been in the hospitol for 5 days, then said IF he operated I probably wouldn't make it, with my ex husband holding my toddler and 1 month old baby I said I guess you better cut me open Doc, and I'm still here :)

kravenscookiejar 18 kids; Surprise, Arizona 20749 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting Nichole Melius:" oh you faker lol. But the pancreas is good these days but I truly should not be here I was in real bad ... [snip!] ... it, with my ex husband holding my toddler and 1 month old baby I said I guess you better cut me open Doc, and I'm still here :)"


I'm so glad you beat the odds, you faker. :P lol



I was pregnant with my oldest son during my fist attack and they told my mom they'd keep me comfortable but I wouldn't make it. She refused and had me airlifted to another hospital, I was in the ICU for 7 days.. it was a mess.

Nichole Warner Due December 6; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Torrington, Connecticut 1644 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting kravenscookiejar:" I'm so glad you beat the odds, you faker. :P lol I was pregnant with my oldest son during my fist attack ... [snip!] ... but I wouldn't make it. She refused and had me airlifted to another hospital, I was in the ICU for 7 days.. it was a mess."


Ouch, I was pregnant with my second son when I found out I had the Gall Stones, then when he was about a month old Not only was I in the worst pain in my life and yeah I mean that worse than child birth, and worse than when I got hit by a car as a kid but I started vomitting then I remember the surgeon asking me while pregnant If I ever get sick when the attacks happen I said no he said well if you do get your self to the hospitol asap. He never said why I shrugged it off till it happened, but when I got to the ER they left me sitting in the waiting room for 3 hours, I told them I had gall stones and they treated me like I was a hypocondriact (sp-1 lol) they kept asking me why I thought that and I kept saying cuz the surgeon told me so I ;m scheduled for surgery next week but it was like they didn't f'in believe me. I'm sorry it's chronic for you, that sucks but were faking right so were both fine lol.



Oh Account Deleted Lmmfao, guess she had no proof she's real who the faker now hehe

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
19th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting xrawrr:</b>" a little late on this, but teens who say they are pregnant and dont need the system arent necessarily ... [snip!] ... change details or just say something stupid that goes against what they said in the first place etc) that makes them obvious."</blockquote>




Wht is stupid is to assume that a 15yr old can support a child. In your country you get free medical insurance. Not here. That lands a child on the system as soon as she is pregnant (baring parental health care) or as soo. As baby is born.

Ali Mae 16 kids; Maine 14 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting :" who else is 14-16"


Damnnnn, im 17.. guess i suck :o

xrawrr Due May 6; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Toronto, Ontario 745 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting xrawrr:</b>" a little late on this, but teens who say they are ... [snip!] ... Not here. That lands a child on the system as soon as she is pregnant (baring parental health care) or as soo. As baby is born."


i never assumed a 15 year old can support a child. all i said was just because someone is young and says they can support their child without using the system doesn't automatically make them a fake. wasn't trying to start shit.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting xrawrr:" i never assumed a 15 year old can support a child. all i said was just because someone is young and ... [snip!] ... says they can support their child without using the system doesn't automatically make them a fake. wasn't trying to start shit."



I didn't say it did. I said those are the clues. They all mesh together and 9 out of 10 times the poster is a fake. No 16 yr old owns their own home, pays all their own bills, goes to school full time with honors while pregnant. There isn't a job out there that pays enough with part time hours for a teen to own their own home, car and pay all their own bills. Put all that together and TADA!

xrawrr Due May 6; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Toronto, Ontario 745 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting Not tellin:" I didn't say it did. I said those are the clues. They all mesh together and 9 out of 10 times the ... [snip!] ... enough with part time hours for a teen to own their own home, car and pay all their own bills. Put all that together and TADA!"


i agree with that. the people who claim to have perfect lives, own their homes, are happily married, get perfect grades at school, make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, etc - those are bullshit. at the age of 15/16 anyway.

ciara2212 Due July 16 (girl); Japan 51 posts
20th Jun '12
Quoting :" who else is 14-16"


15

Nichole Warner Due December 6; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Torrington, Connecticut 1644 posts
20th Jun '12
Quoting xrawrr:" i agree with that. the people who claim to have perfect lives, own their homes, are happily married, ... [snip!] ... perfect grades at school, make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, etc - those are bullshit. at the age of 15/16 anyway."

Yeah, those kids are doing better than I am. I lost my job 24 hours after my boss found out I was pregnant and although I don't live off the system, and my LO will have my Boyfriends insurance were STRUGGELING HARD CORE to make ends meat so I'd like to no the child trick to having it so good

xrawrr Due May 6; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Toronto, Ontario 745 posts
20th Jun '12
Quoting Nichole Melius:" Yeah, those kids are doing better than I am. I lost my job 24 hours after my boss found out I was pregnant ... [snip!] ... my Boyfriends insurance were STRUGGELING HARD CORE to make ends meat so I'd like to no the child trick to having it so good"


lol i know, im only 21 and SO is 20 but even though we both work full-time (well not me anymore since baby is due in 4 weeks) and he works a 2nd job some days with a family friend for extra cash, we're nowhere near as financially ready as i would like us to be. we're both still young, but its still amazing that kids who are years younger than us have everything all planned out perfectly and have no financial worries at all lol.



btw, dont mean to pry but isn't it illegal to fire someone for being pregnant? well, not even specifically for being pregnant but just firing a pregnant woman in general. i'd have been having some serious words with my employer if that were me lol.

Nichole Warner Due December 6; 5 kids; 2 angel babies; Torrington, Connecticut 1644 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting xrawrr:" lol i know, im only 21 and SO is 20 but even though we both work full-time (well not me anymore since ... [snip!] ... but just firing a pregnant woman in general. i'd have been having some serious words with my employer if that were me lol."


it's ok pry away lol. Well here's the deal I worked for Cumberland Farms, my Boss had yet again another bad audit. She has always had a full time 3rd shit in this case it was me. Well if the don't quit sooner she finds away to get them fired after they've been there for about 5 months. just shy of there 6 month so they can't collect unemployment. And it always follows her having bad audits. Well I am no thief and I highly doubt that every single person she puts on 3rd shift is. We strongly believe i's her herself doing all the stealing. So they tried to say that I was following company policy that was in the handbook when doing "POST VOIDS" well them fools didn't realize that not only do I read my material word for word front to back, but I kept it and what they were saying I did wrong was no wheres to be found. When I confronted her Boss he blew me off and said all districts and stores have there own policies. Now what I was doing that got me fired she should have known from day one because I did it the entire time I worked there and handed her the paper work at the end of every shift with the receipts stapled to it and she let me do it for 5 months so there lying. But I called lawyers about it and they seem to agree that I'm right but they won't touch Cumberland Farms because they say that that company seems to be able to do what ever they want. Sorry for the lengthy explanation.