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Fingers crossed i'll be back x x Lilly-Jade 16 kids; London, United Kingdom 37 posts
18th Jun '12

Hey guys. i'm not pregnant anymore as I recently lost my baby but I just want to say you're all so brave. I'm 17, but I was so happy and excited when I found out me and my boyfriend was going to be parents. I'm heartbroken now that's been taken away from us and we're even considering trying again when we're feeling ready for it. Whether that's in a couple of months or years. Hopefully i'll be seeing myself in this section again. Good luck girls x x x

melissa_83 Due December 20; 3 kids; New York 1297 posts
18th Jun '12

Im soo sorry to hear this...youll be back dont worry. Do they have a cause as to why you miscarried????

Lilly-Jade 16 kids; London, United Kingdom 37 posts
18th Jun '12

Thankyou :)
I asked them so many times why they thought it happened but they just didn't know. they said when it happens around 8 weeks it's normally to do with chromosomes and the overall picture wasn't right. xx

Danielle Herring 1 child; United Kingdom 408 posts
18th Jun '12

Aww God bless hun, your angel baby is in my thoughts. Good luck for the future xXx

melissa_83 Due December 20; 3 kids; New York 1297 posts
18th Jun '12

Thats too bad....even though this is my 4th I think im more nervous about everything being ok with this baby then any of the others. I read on BG so much stuff that can go wrong and I guess I never really paid any attention to it. Im 13 1/2 weeks along and have my next appointment in 8 days and im praying the heartbeat will still be there and everything will be ok. Just because your not pregnanty anymore doesnt mean you still cant belong to BG lots of girls on here are either TTC or have just lost a baby.

Lilly-Jade 16 kids; London, United Kingdom 37 posts
18th Jun '12
Quoting melissa_83:" Thats too bad....even though this is my 4th I think im more nervous about everything being ok with this ... [snip!] ... not pregnanty anymore doesnt mean you still cant belong to BG lots of girls on here are either TTC or have just lost a baby."


I was worried about posting in this section though just because I got my account permanently deleted on baby&bump recently, just because I was wishing the girls I knew in the teen section good luck and i'm not pregnant anymore, so apparently wasn't allowed to do that but anyway this sounds like a nicer place :} you're all really nice.



Thanks danielle :) xx

melissa_83 Due December 20; 3 kids; New York 1297 posts
18th Jun '12
Quoting Lilly-Jade:" I was worried about posting in this section though just because I got my account permanently deleted ... [snip!] ... wasn't allowed to do that but anyway this sounds like a nicer place :} you're all really nice. Thanks danielle :) xx"

that sounds dumb...why wouldnt you be able to wish people well. Anyway theres a section under preg forms for moms who have had miscarriages and/or stillbirths...maybe talking to some of them will help you

Candace Holmes Due March 8 (girl); USA 24 posts
19th Jun '12

If you understood how hard it is to be a teen parent, youd rethink this. Just live your life, go to college, get a job, do fun things! Go on a vacation! All the things you cant do with a baby! Im sorry you lost your baby, but maybe its a sign.

Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
19th Jun '12
Quoting Candace Holmes:" If you understood how hard it is to be a teen parent, youd rethink this. Just live your life, go to college, ... [snip!] ... do fun things! Go on a vacation! All the things you cant do with a baby! Im sorry you lost your baby, but maybe its a sign."


I'm sure everyone knows being a teen mom is hard. She just lost her baby, saying it's a sign is a little messed up. Not trying to start a fight but if someone told me that after I had a miscarriage I would be very upset.

Lilly-Jade 16 kids; London, United Kingdom 37 posts
20th Jun '12
Quoting Disco Spider:" I'm sure everyone knows being a teen mom is hard. She just lost her baby, saying it's a sign is a little ... [snip!] ... is a little messed up. Not trying to start a fight but if someone told me that after I had a miscarriage I would be very upset."

Thanks! i'm glad somebody else noticed. I didn't want to say anything and start an arguement but don't even think about saying me losing my baby is a 'sign'. Disco spider is right, it's messed up and you're lucky i've reacted so calmly because not many others would! I'd seriously think about what you say before you go and post anything similar on another miscarriage thread. Losing your child is not a sign, no matter what age you are. And yeah, everyone knows it's not easy. It's not all cute and easy, well done.. Some people are set up for the hard work of being a teen mum, ya'know.