user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
21st Jun '12

there ARE men out there that WILL love you, and treat your children like they are his own. do not settle for this douche. YOU ACCEPT THE LOVE YOU THINK YOU DESERVE. you feel worthless, so you think he is all there is out there.



i really think you should talk to a professional.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22109 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting Bye..Deleted...:" I just want to say this last thing in my defense: I'm not innocent and have never indicated that I ... [snip!] ... my posts or through private messages. I really appreciated all of the good advice and really that's it. Thanks again. Bye."


Stop with the pity party shit. I hope you get your act together so that you don't raise your girls thinking that this is how a woman should be. NO one can change your life but you.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
21st Jun '12

OP how are you going to teach your daughters to be better than you? teach them what true love and a real relationship are?

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
21st Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bye..Deleted...:</b>" I just want to say this last thing in my defense: I'm not innocent and have never indicated that I ... [snip!] ... my posts or through private messages. I really appreciated all of the good advice and really that's it. Thanks again. Bye."</blockquote>




You are probably 75-90% the reason is marriage is breaking up



You were treated as a second class citizen as a child. Now you are going to raise 4children the same way. Smfh.

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting Bye..Deleted...:" I just want to say this last thing in my defense: I'm not innocent and have never indicated that I ... [snip!] ... my posts or through private messages. I really appreciated all of the good advice and really that's it. Thanks again. Bye."


And you think you can teach your kids better? Using your childhood to justify being a homewrecker certainly doesn't help you much there...
Again, you are pathetic!
His wife doesn't owe shit to your kids so quit your bitchfest about her not treating them like f**king gold.
I pity your kids I really do....I can't imagine how screwed up they'll be because of all that YOU'VE done!

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting October Rust:" And you think you can teach your kids better? Using your childhood to justify being a homewrecker certainly ... [snip!] ... owe shit to your kids so quit your bitchfest about her not treating them like f**king gold. I pity your kids I really do...."


if my husband had kids with someone else, first of all I WOULD LEAVE, second i would want nothing to do with them. i'd never want to meet them OR her.

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" if my husband had kids with someone else, first of all I WOULD LEAVE, second i would want nothing to do with them. i'd never want to meet them OR her."


Same here!

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
21st Jun '12

OP are you kidding me???



You are a grown ass women and have 4 children! You can not carry around this boo-hoo-hoo me shit from your childhood. Big news flash.....95% of the women I read about on here have some fucked up past.



As far as this 'your not pretty shit' beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You need to work on your personal shit so you can see your beauty.



As far as saying the wife treats you kids bad.....are you f**king kidding me??? Not only did you have one kid with HER man..you then made baby number 2, then baby number 3, and NOW baby #4!!!! You are killing this women slowly from her heart out wards.




Baby-gaga is not a bunch of flowery sunshine boo-boo kissing women....but it is a bunch of real life women, with real experiences sorrow and stories. If I were you Id stick around, never know how much you can learn from talking to other women.
(Im assuming this...but I cant see you having a lot of powerful women in your life)

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
21st Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bye..Deleted...:</b>" I just want to say this last thing in my defense: I'm not innocent and have never indicated that I ... [snip!] ... my posts or through private messages. I really appreciated all of the good advice and really that's it. Thanks again. Bye."</blockquote>




I dont care what you say, if you were sleeping with my husband and continued to do so I wouldnt damn show you any respect either!! & as far asd the kids I would have nothing to do with them! That would be his problem 100%!! You make it sound like YOU were with him first so she HAS to except your kids!! You were f**king this womans husband and you didnt give one f**k about her because you continued to do so!! Now a days you should be lucky she didnt beat the shit out of you but she HAD and has too much respect for herself! Wtf were you expecting this MARRIED woman to do when you were her husbands mistress?!!7 you have got some damn nerve!



And as far as your less than perfect childhood, maybeee if you didnt spend 10 years f**king a married man you would HAVE A HOUSE, HUSBAND, AND FAMILY! Ok your parents didnt pay for you to go to school big f**king deal! There are grants and loans!! Go cry a river somewhere else!

* Sara * 2 kids; Texas 18864 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting A❤T=P[Bun in th Ov:" Stop trying to use your childhood as an excuse. Pathetic. You have no right to be angry with a woman ... [snip!] ... a relationship with your chrilden. You ruined her family, with little regard for her CHILD! Get yourself into some counseling."


:!::!::!:

* Sara * 2 kids; Texas 18864 posts
21st Jun '12
Quoting Bye..Deleted...:" If anybody would like to continue being friends you can e-mail me at dana_momof3@yahoo.com and from there I can give you my e-mail for facebook."


Good luck with that. You should have been a real woman and owned up to your mistakes instead of running away like a coward and throwing excuse after excuse into the sky.