user banned Due February 13; 17 kids; Florence, Alabama 191 posts
Jun 22nd '12

yes when i was 19 i aopted my son, not gave him away. his birth mother was my bff at the time n she severly neglected him so when i found out i told her to either step up n b a mom or sign him over so she signed him over to me. n the state of alabama as long as ur an adult u can file for adoption. u have to pass a few things like DHR (cps) n a back ground check. my court date is july 9th to make it all finalized but i have been told by the judge, DHR and my lawyer that its all pretty much a done deal, the court date it only to make it official. i didnt go threw an agency or anything like that bc i knew the mother personally. but yes i was allowed to adopt him when i was 19

Mrs. Brightside 2 kids; Lichtensteig, Switzerland 11733 posts
Jun 22nd '12
Quoting Disco Spider:" "


:lol:

Shelly + 2 TTC since Jan 2012; 2 kids; Cave Creek, AZ, United States 1024 posts
Jun 22nd '12

I think she ment that she gave son up for adoption. Sheesh, way to attack a girl.

Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
Jun 22nd '12

I can barely read your post.

Shelly + 2 TTC since Jan 2012; 2 kids; Cave Creek, AZ, United States 1024 posts
Jun 22nd '12

Never mind I was wrong. Lol proceed...

Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
Jun 22nd '12
Quoting Shelly + 2:" I think she ment that she gave son up for adoption. Sheesh, way to attack a girl."


She said she is adopting him....

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
Jun 22nd '12

What kind of job do you have?

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7550 posts
Jun 22nd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Disco Spider:</b>" I can barely read your post. "</blockquote>



:!: I can't help but agree. It's so confusing..

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13162 posts
status Jun 22nd '12
Quoting Shelly + 2:" I think she ment that she gave son up for adoption. Sheesh, way to attack a girl."


No she very clearly stated that she adopted her son when she was 19. And goes on to talk about how hard it is to be young and a single parent. Hello then don't adopt a child at 19 before you can support one:roll:.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
Jun 22nd '12

This story seems fishy. Did you think having a child at 19 would be a piece of cake?

♡ ⛄ ❅ ♡ ❅ ⛄ ♡ ~, FL, United States 74696 posts
status Jun 22nd '12
Quoting Shelly + 2:" I think she ment that she gave son up for adoption. Sheesh, way to attack a girl."


No one attacked her...

Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
Jun 22nd '12
Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Disco Spider:</b>" I can barely read your post. "</blockquote> :!: I can't help but agree. It's so confusing.."


My 13 year old sister spells better.

user banned Due February 13; 17 kids; Florence, Alabama 191 posts
Jun 22nd '12

i didnt go out one day n say yea ima adopt a baby today, it just happened. my bff lived n another state for a while after the baby was born so i had no idea what was goin on untill he was 10 months n she came to live with me n alabama, when i saw her neglecting him i called her out on it n she looked me n the eye n told me she hates him n never wanted him so thats when i said step up n b a mom or sign him over, so chooce to sign him over so i got a lawyer, payed for it out of my tax money, n adopted him

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
Jun 22nd '12
Quoting AshTray Dawn:" i didnt go out one day n say yea ima adopt a baby today, it just happened. my bff lived n another state ... [snip!] ... up n b a mom or sign him over, so chooce to sign him over so i got a lawyer, payed for it out of my tax money, n adopted him"


you should spend some money to go back to school, it will benefit you and your child.

Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
Jun 22nd '12
Quoting AshTray Dawn:" i didnt go out one day n say yea ima adopt a baby today, it just happened. my bff lived n another state ... [snip!] ... up n b a mom or sign him over, so chooce to sign him over so i got a lawyer, payed for it out of my tax money, n adopted him"


Yea I doubt that. They would have given her family first choice. You live with his mom? Why would you file to be his mom if you live with her? Can you provide any proof?