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Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36618 posts
23rd Jun '12
Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:" The thing is I don't know what the right choice us and the only people I have to talk about it with is ... [snip!] ... are low on money because I have to fly to ny 6 times a year & I'm probably going to get in trouble for not going this summer!"

why do you have to fly 6 times a year to NY?

*proudmama3* 3 kids; Somewhere in, NY, United States 2680 posts
23rd Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" Why would yu have to go without your kids? "</blockquote>



I mean I'm just happy I have them

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59959 posts
23rd Jun '12
Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:" The thing is I don't know what the right choice us and the only people I have to talk about it with is ... [snip!] ... are low on money because I have to fly to ny 6 times a year & I'm probably going to get in trouble for not going this summer!"


I am sending you so many hugs. And a lot of support. I know it's a hard decision, and it's even harder because no one can tell you what's right for your situation.



<3<3

*proudmama3* 3 kids; Somewhere in, NY, United States 2680 posts
23rd Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" I absolutely understand. Would you feel comfortable going in to the clinic and talking with someone? ... [snip!] ... you make the right decision for you. (At least, the clinic I went to was. They were incredibly understanding and supportive.)"</blockquote>




I don't think so :(

*proudmama3* 3 kids; Somewhere in, NY, United States 2680 posts
23rd Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nicola =):</b>" Everyone will eventually understand whichever you choose. However you will live with your choice forever. ... [snip!] ... If you aren't sure then reschedule. It will all work out one way or the other. I have said a prayer for you and your family."</blockquote>



Thank you

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36618 posts
23rd Jun '12
Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" Why would yu have to go without your kids? "</blockquote> I mean I'm just happy I have them"

oh ok.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59959 posts
23rd Jun '12
Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" I absolutely understand. Would you feel comfortable ... [snip!] ... the clinic I went to was. They were incredibly understanding and supportive.)"</blockquote> I don't think so :("


Hmm. Are you near a park, somewhere where you can go where it's quiet to think? <3



I'm so sorry, I have to go to work. But I am going to be thinking of you, and please take your time. Don't feel pressured in any direction because of your family or friends. And please keep us updated, we are here for you.

*proudmama3* 3 kids; Somewhere in, NY, United States 2680 posts
23rd Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" why do you have to fly 6 times a year to NY? "</blockquote>



To bring my daugter for a visit with her real father but she doesnt even know him so its terrible

user banned New York 15996 posts
23rd Jun '12

I agree. Whichever decision you make, people WILL understand and eventually have to accept.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36618 posts
23rd Jun '12
Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Link:</b>" why do you have to fly 6 times a year to NY? "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... NY? "</blockquote> To bring my daugter for a visit with her real father but she doesnt even know him so its terrible"


omg. My feeling on that is if he wants to get to know her he should go to where ever you are.. instead of the other way around.
I would put an end to that. :(



Im sorry.

Proud momma 87 18 kids; Ohio 607 posts
23rd Jun '12

Take your time and weigh both options. Do what is best for you and don't consider anyone's opinion or feelings it doesn't involve them and they aren't in your shoes right now. Anyone can stand back and say what thru would do but it's completely different once in the situation.

Justine's Mama Due November 28 (boy); 1 child; Boynton Beach, Florida 1939 posts
23rd Jun '12

i would take the day to think about it again, dont do it just because your husband is mad if you feel like you cant do it then dont, hope you feel better & are able to make a decision, think about it again dont rush it, sorry you have to go through this i know its tuff

Ann-marie Mcbeath Due December 4 (boy); Fraserburgh, United Kingdom 10 posts
23rd Jun '12

take your time and really think about it, you dont want to live with regret for the rest of your life

let it be California 41018 posts
23rd Jun '12

Take your time, you don't seem 100% sure you want to do this. Breath. talk to your husband and see what he thinks about you keeping the baby.

*proudmama3* 3 kids; Somewhere in, NY, United States 2680 posts
23rd Jun '12

Well I'm on my way home. I think I'm pretty sure I'm going to keep the baby or at least think about it a lot more