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The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59965 posts
27th Jun '12
Quoting Pregasarus♥:" I'd be worried my child wasn't normal if he was this perfect little angel all of the time. "


Haha, me, too.



My daughter is an amazing person... but she still threw a tantrum for a half an hour this morning because she didn't want to take a shower.



Then, when we were done... she was back to hugging and kisses and making me giggle.

CircleK 1 child; 1 angel baby; Federal Way, WA, United States 11019 posts
status 27th Jun '12

Reading OP's posts, ghetto was the word that popped in my head, the way she said things.



OP, I wasn't a teen mom. I had my daughter at 21. It doesn't matter what age you are, parenting is HARD. I absolutely loved the first year because the first couple of months, all she did was eat, sleep and poop. Even when she started walking, it was GREAT! Until recently when she's doing her own thing and not listening to me because she's independent and figures she will do things her way. She's 3 and a half now. Raising her isn't hard at all. But parenting her is different. At 2 months, you don't need to teach your children anything. You don't need to teach them right from wrong, good from bad. You don't have to teach them about safety, going with strangers, talking to strangers when mommy isn't around. You also don't have to teach them about walking off on their own without mommy around. So enjoy the glitters and rainbows because in the near future, you'll pull out your own hair and bang your head against the wall out of frustration.



Oh, and I raised my daughter on my own too. I'm a single mom and was a single mom since she was born. I didn't have anyone watch her until I went back to work when she was 6 months because I got out of the Army right before she was born and was on unemployment. Even when I went back to school, it was still easy. I didn't have someone talking back to me. Reality hits and you see how hard it can get when you have to work to support your family and you're trying to get your child ready and she's just making it hard for you and after work when you're tired and she's refusing to eat.



And let your husband be a dad. He's your daughter's father and it is unfair of you to not let him do anything.



If OP is superwoman, I must be bionic woman!

Mama of three babes 3 kids; New York 1257 posts
27th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pregasarus♥:</b>" I am a good parent, but my son still throws tantrums. :?"</blockquote>




Nope no tantrums they don't ever do anything terribly bad either. Defiant like no mom I'm not cleaning yes they do that my son even lies sometimes, but acting like a beast and throwing tantrums smacking biting shit nope never!

Mama of three babes 3 kids; New York 1257 posts
27th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Haha, me, too. My daughter is an amazing person... but she still threw a tantrum for a half an hour ... [snip!] ... because she didn't want to take a shower. Then, when we were done... she was back to hugging and kisses and making me giggle."</blockquote>




I never said perfect angel but screaming tantrums noooo way never and thank god.

thisunrest India 10364 posts
27th Jun '12

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❤ ʘlive Oyl 4 kids; 6328 posts
27th Jun '12
Quoting MommySpurgeonX4:" Well... basically this little girl claims that being a parent is all glitter and rainbows because her ... [snip!] ... of those types that makes her life look fantastic online when in reality its not all that great. that about sums it up... :D"


Poop! That doesn't sound worth 13 pages of time to read. lol

MommySpurgeonX4 4 kids; Idaho 1508 posts
27th Jun '12
Quoting ♥ Olive Oyl:" Poop! That doesn't sound worth 13 pages of time to read. lol"


well it was more interesting, i gave the super short summed up version :) buuut had i not been in it from the beginning i probably wouldn't spend the time to read all 13 pages either.. lol

M Due August 28 (boy); 4 kids; Round Rock, Texas 464 posts
27th Jun '12

Hahaha lol. Wait till they start school!

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
28th Jun '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Strong desire to laugh. Must. Hold. Back."</blockquote>




Mee too

Katlynn Bradds 33 kids; Maryland 49 posts
18th Jul '12
Quoting XxWhite_RosexX:" congrats "


Thank You!

KhloesMommy[TNTC][BBM] 1 child; O'Fallon, Illinois 4166 posts
19th Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Fertile Mertile + D & C:</b>" okay then.... "</blockquote>




LOL ur picture goes well with ur comment lol