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Acting wierd. nicki4455 Due June 7; Okanogan, Washington 30 posts
27th Jun '12

My SO was fine with me being prego but ever sence the baby was born hes been acting like a HUGE jerk. I know that he may be mad cuz the baby has all my attenchen but hes not helping with ANYTHING. Im so mad!! He barly even changes a diaper, when i give the baby to him (the dad) he (the dad) gives the baby to his mom, that about how long he holds him. Hes not acting like he wants to be in our life. What do i do???

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19591 posts
27th Jun '12

attenchen. really? . just talk to your SO.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
27th Jun '12

Tell him how you feel.

mama erica. 2 kids; New York 60568 posts
27th Jun '12

Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. He needs to step up and help out. It's not fair for you to have to do everything and for him to hand the baby off all of the time.

Hayleigh & Max' mom Due October 17; 34 kids; Tulsa, Oklahoma 4554 posts
27th Jun '12
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" attenchen. really? . just talk to your SO."


dont forget sense

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19591 posts
27th Jun '12
Quoting Hayleigh & Max' mom:" dont forget sense"


and barly

Ronnie RadKat 3 kids; Arizona 21152 posts
status 27th Jun '12
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" attenchen. really? . just talk to your SO."


haha (sorry I had to laugh)



but yes OP you need to talk to him and see what is going on in that head of his and maybe say something nicely to his mom about not taking the baby everytime he tries to give him to her.

GiannasMomma 1 child; Illinois 5716 posts
27th Jun '12

He (the dad) barly even changes a diaper, when i give the baby to him (the dad) he (the dad) gives the baby to his (the dad) mom, that about how long he (the dad) holds him

nicki4455 Due June 7; Okanogan, Washington 30 posts
27th Jun '12

he said that he would rather be single then deal with us... i just feel like im crap sence thats how he treats me like. and im sorry for my spelling, im really crappy at it.

.nnnb British Columbia 18155 posts
27th Jun '12
Quoting nicki4455:" My SO was fine with me being prego but ever sence the baby was born hes been acting like a HUGE jerk. ... [snip!] ... gives the baby to his mom, that about how long he holds him. Hes not acting like he wants to be in our life. What do i do???"


give his p***s some attenchen!!!

Ronnie RadKat 3 kids; Arizona 21152 posts
status 27th Jun '12
Quoting nicki4455:" he said that he would rather be single then deal with us... i just feel like im crap sence thats how he treats me like. and im sorry for my spelling, im really crappy at it."



Then tell him to kick mutha frappin rocks dude... if he's treating you poorly and not even helping with the baby what good is he anyway? I know it sucks, no one wants to be a single parent but it happens. You sound like you would be better off without him.

TeenTubby Due July 31; 1 child; 1 angel baby; New Jersey 661 posts
27th Jun '12

Make him pay child support, by legal means... He doesn't pay he goes to jail, he does and you have money for your baby either way it a winn win deal. If I were you i'd dump the a*****e just because he's the father of your baby doesn't mean you have to deal with that type of disrespect. Shape up or ship out.

Paging Dr. Google. 2 kids; Illinois 1640 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" give his p***s some attenchen!!!"


You made me spit out my milk >:(

Paging Dr. Google. 2 kids; Illinois 1640 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting nicki4455:" he said that he would rather be single then deal with us... i just feel like im crap sence thats how he treats me like. and im sorry for my spelling, im really crappy at it."


I'm sorry but you are surprised at this? He's young, he doesn't want to be tied down. While it's not fair he may just be scared of reality. Going from a pregnant girlfriend to a real life baby is quite a kick in the face to a boy. Hell, a man at any age. Relax it may get better.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19591 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" give his p***s some attenchen!!!"


omg. bwahahahahahhahahahaha.
i luz you