Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting Candy Pants*PLG*:" :!: Most definitely weigh out your options. You have to remember you will more than likely be doing this alone. You may or may not have family to help you."


This! And remember if you don't want to get an abortion, you can always consider adoption. You would be doing your baby a solid by finding him/her a great family.

user banned Clarksville, Tennessee 3255 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting bia.:" Just because she's 15 doesn't mean they shouldn't support her, that's a bit stupid, what kind of mother does that? :?"

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Crystal Christofferson Kv Due July 13 (boy); 3 kids; Bergen, Norway 172 posts
28th Jun '12

This is proabably kind of harsh but no, your family doesn't have to help support you (im assuming that's what you meant) and are you really surprised that the guy isn't interested? When you go out and just screw someone drunk or sober it means absolutely nothing, ever, period. Hope you choose to not do that again. It sucks that this was the outcome but I hope you take a realistic look at the situation. Good luck.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74449 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting mommy to Carter:" You can be a successful single mom. Get whatever help you can from your family, the state,and child ... [snip!] ... Don't quit school, and don't give up! You should not feel pressured to have an abortion. There is precious life inside of you. "


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Amen!

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" don't give her false hope of this guy "loving her" the chances of that are slim. he has a girlfriend. ... [snip!] ... had a girlfriend shows they obviously didn't know each other well to begin with, and adding a baby would make that easier how?"


:!: No shit, man. Don't feed the girl fairy tales. The real world doesn't work like that.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting bia.:" Just because she's 15 doesn't mean they shouldn't support her, that's a bit stupid, what kind of mother does that? :?"


Some parents aren't supportive. I'm sure it's a LOT for them to handle. They probably didn't even know she was having sex to begin with.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
28th Jun '12

you probably had sex? Or maybe you had sex with someone else or multiple someone elses....

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting October2011:" age 15....drunk at parties...where are parents these days?"


Kid do what they want, when they want, regardless of how involved their parents are.

user banned Clarksville, Tennessee 3255 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting Vindictive:" Kid do what they want, when they want, regardless of how involved their parents are."

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bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74449 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" Some parents aren't supportive. I'm sure it's a LOT for them to handle. They probably didn't even know she was having sex to begin with."


That's bullshit, pure f**king bullshit, poor girl.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting A❤T=P[Bun in th Ov:" you probably had sex? Or maybe you had sex with someone else or multiple someone elses...."


Right. if she "probably" had sex with him and is pregnant, then she "probably" had sex with someone else, so it seems, since she isn't even positive they did it.

KD [Eli's Mommy] Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Carrollton, Georgia 858 posts
28th Jun '12

Hun you're soo young. The fact is that your family does not have to help you just because they helped your sister. If you don't want to have an abortion then I would go speak to an adoption center and simply become educated on the matter. Always know every option that you have available to you.
Talk to your parents first and let them know what is going on. Make sure that you can get in to see a doctor, and do not drop out of school. If you do decide to keep the baby, you will need an education to get a good job and support the baby.
As for the guy, so what? There are plenty of people that are single parents, but if the two of you can have a civil relationship for the sake of the child then all of the power to you.
First things first, talk to your parents and see where they stand on things.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting bia.:" That's bullshit, pure f**king bullshit, poor girl."


But it's reality..

O ♥ G 2 kids; Pride, Louisiana 10723 posts
28th Jun '12

I don't even know where to start.....how old are you?



No one can make you get an abortion. It's your body, your choice. The only choice they have is whether they will support you in this. If you don't have support, it will be a 100 times harder than it will be anyways so first you need to tell your parents. Dont keep it from them even if you decide to abort. And don't plan on your life being like your sisters. It's time to grow up and take responsibility for your actions and the first step is admitting it. Also, it's not time to worry about what people at school will say, unless they are in your position, they don't know what it is like and they will judge you, but don't take it to heart. And it's none of their business anyways. As for the dad, he will have to take responsibility no matter what when you file for child support. Even if he isn't in the baby's life, he will still have to be responsible financially. It's just as much his fault as it is yours. I would find out where he is moving though and try to keep in touch. Remember, adoption is a hard choice, but a very brave and selfless choice and maybe it would be something for you to think about if you end up not having any kind of help or support. As a teen, it's likely you will be unable to get a high paying job to help afford a baby, plus you still need to get through school and graduate.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74449 posts
28th Jun '12
Quoting alyssssa ★:" :!::!:"


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My parents were around alot for my sister, she still drank and had sex, oh and got pregnant at 15, ooooooops.