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need advice about my 3yr old..... mummy-2-3 3 kids; New Zealand 534 posts
29th Jun '12

hey all.... my 3yr old is becoming very violent lately... not too sure why she is, but its starting to bother me, shes a sweet caring little girl, but just recently has become biting, punching, kicking, spitting, and pinching, and coming out with rude saying ect.....
we had 5 other kids in our house for nearly 2months, and then my girl started up while they were here and then she was "normal" again, but she has started up again.....
has anyone else had this problem?? and what can i do to try and stop her outbursts??



please no negative comments. (im also 18weeks pregnant, and worried that she might hurt baby is she kicks me in the belly ect)



Thanks



Debs x*x



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ashley noel [gav's here!] 2 kids; Rhode Island 6374 posts
29th Jun '12

You know, my daughter has been going through that a lot lately... She will "playfully" punch, kick, and jump on me or her dad... And when she is mad and I try to send her to time out she grabs me really hard and squeezes so much it hurts me. Im almost 21 weeks pregnant, maybe it has to do with the pregnancies? Maybe they're getting a big jealous or scared of the changes?

mummy-2-3 3 kids; New Zealand 534 posts
29th Jun '12
Quoting ashley noel.:" You know, my daughter has been going through that a lot lately... She will "playfully" punch, kick, and ... [snip!] ... 21 weeks pregnant, maybe it has to do with the pregnancies? Maybe they're getting a big jealous or scared of the changes?"

i dont know aye... cause shes really excited about bubba in mummy's tummy lol and she will sit there and talk to my belly for ages and draw pictures on my belly for the baby lol (really cute!!!) its ever since she's been around a bunch of kids in her house for such a long length of time.....but i dont know, just need this sorted.... :(

ashley noel [gav's here!] 2 kids; Rhode Island 6374 posts
29th Jun '12
Quoting mummy-2-be-againxxx:" i dont know aye... cause shes really excited about bubba in mummy's tummy lol and she will sit there ... [snip!] ... she's been around a bunch of kids in her house for such a long length of time.....but i dont know, just need this sorted.... :("


How did the kids behave? Did she see them hitting each other? Maybe she picked it up from them?

mummy-2-3 3 kids; New Zealand 534 posts
29th Jun '12
Quoting ashley noel.:" How did the kids behave? Did she see them hitting each other? Maybe she picked it up from them?"

way more than hitting each other :( they were ages 13yrs, 8yrs,6yrs,3yrs and 2yrs plus my girl!!
and the 2yr old is the only girl apart from my girl lol