I have no tips, just wanted to say best of luck to you!
Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" I appreciate it. I don't have many friends, and I really don't want ex-SO to go with me :? So thank you for that."
:( i'm so sorry to hear that!
<blockquote><b>Quoting Lil' Nugget.:</b>" I appreciate it. I don't have many friends, and I really don't want ex-SO to go with me :? So thank you for that."</blockquote>
Who is going with you? You can't do this alone :(. Best of luck..as tough a a decision it is you are making the most responsible one with the conditions you are living in right now.
I wish you the best!
From experience, the best advice I can give you is to let yourself grieve. Cry if you have to.. talk about it with someone if your feeling upset. It made it such an easier process for me to do those things. I grieved, I cried, I screamed and I even played the "blame game". But at the end it made me feel a whole lot better.
There is a message board for abortion survivors and talking about relationships, structured support groups, having an abortion after kids, bad relationships, even abortions in good relationships, etc... that I used when I had my abortion. If you want the info to go on there for support, PM me. This goes to anyone else who has had an abortion, I just won't post it publicly because I don't want people to go on there with ill intentions. So PM me if you want it... it was a tremendous help to me when I needed it!!!
Awww hun, im here if you need anyone to talk to. I know how hard this must be for you. (hugs)
babe=[ are you sure about this? I'm so sorry everything is going this way!