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taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49151 posts
8th Jul '12
Quoting Let Me Tell You My Secret:" I was on it, Then we turned in our 6 month review last year and was cut off, then I applied again and was denied. And we make more now then we did then so Im sure we don't qualify even more so now."

Pregnancy mediciad is different the income guideline is higher, I'm on share of cost when not pregnant but when i got prgnant i got full Medicaid again. I would try. But if the best choice is to about then about. I just thought i would throw the option out there.



I didnt have a d and c i wont post the full details because there not A and S supportive and i will get modded but the day after was the hardest. If u want my full story ur more then welcome to PM me.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49151 posts
8th Jul '12
Quoting Let Me Tell You My Secret:" My cycle is every 38 days. Will the dr go by the normal every 30 days or will he go by my 38 days?"



Im not sure they use a wheel thing but with mine i had a early u/s i was 6 weeks we thought i was 8 but the u/s when i was in the hospital was 4 weeks the hospital guessed 6 but i was 4 weeks. I was sick with pneumonia.

user banned TTC since Mar 2003; USA 288 posts
8th Jul '12
Quoting Mama 2 Blake:" Im not sure they use a wheel thing but with mine i had a early u/s i was 6 weeks we thought i was ... [snip!] ... i was 8 but the u/s when i was in the hospital was 4 weeks the hospital guessed 6 but i was 4 weeks. I was sick with pneumonia."



Baby Center says I am Due March 8th going with my last period but to think I think they where using the normal 30 days thing.

leighleigh111 2 kids; Houston, Texas 692 posts
8th Jul '12

http://www.fundabortionnow.org/ if you need help paying for an abortion, they might be able to help pay for it, if that is something you need.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19175 posts
8th Jul '12

Good luck hun. I've never had one but I would be in the same boat if I were in your shoes right now.
I would never adopt out and it would kill me to abort.
But if aborting meant that my family and I were healthy and happy then I think it would be a huge thing to think about.
I know you're on the secrets account but if you need anyone to talk to feel free to PM me.

user banned TTC since Mar 2003; USA 288 posts
8th Jul '12
Quoting leighleigh111:" http://www.fundabortionnow.org/ if you need help paying for an abortion, they might be able to help pay for it, if that is something you need. "


There are only 4 in my whole state, and the closest is over 2 hours away. And the place I am going is 45 mins the opposite way from it. Do I have to go there or how does it work?

leighleigh111 2 kids; Houston, Texas 692 posts
8th Jul '12

I went and put in my information (get help link)for where I live and it came up with a fund and a website to go to and to call their hotline for help. So it depends on if there is a fund in your state. This also might limit where you can go because the clinic has to accept it.

MariahLTate USA 161 posts
10th Jul '12

Hey girl. U said that you have been praying about it... Idk what ur beliefs are but I think that if the lord is blessing you with another baby .. He is saying you can handle it. The lord never gives us nothing we cant handle. Just think about everything and positives and. Negitives and u always have to believe the best in every outcome. Girl I'm sorry that ur going through this but u never know... I know u say ur not ready and ur body's not ready but maybe u can bless somebody with a baby that they cant have. Just think about all the chocies:) please don't take any of this the wrong way just trying to give advice from the heart.

user banned Due March 21; 1 child; Colorado 67779 posts
10th Jul '12

I have heard from several people that the vacuum/ surgical abortion is much better than the abortion pill. I guess it is easier on your body too. If you don't want it then make an appointment & go in. At least talk to someone & figure out what you want to do from there. Ignore any comments that try to talk to you about religion or murder :? If you aren't ready then you aren't ready

MariahLTate USA 161 posts
10th Jul '12

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user banned Due March 21; 1 child; Colorado 67779 posts
10th Jul '12
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Breanna.W27 St Louis, Missouri 6 posts
12th Jul '12

Oh please dont do it. You will regret it. I had one and not a day goes by were i don't think of that baby. Give the baby to someone who's ready.

mommasaid123 Due October 8; 20 kids; California 54 posts
12th Jul '12

Hmmm, this is a touchy subject. I feel nervous to even reply, but i can tell your really torn up. Look you just need to do what you think is going to be for the best. Were you taking any recautionaries before you got pregnant so that you wouldn't? I would look into every option that you can think of. Thendecide if you can live with whatever decision you have made. Don't let anyone make a decision for you, because this is a big thing. This is another human beig in your hands. So do what YOU think is right for YOU. But you need to be 100% honest with your husband, because this is the kind of thing that can ruin a marraige. Good luck and i hope i didn't offend you or anyone else.

Nicole Bales Due July 15; Japan 24 posts
12th Jul '12

dont abort ur baby i wouldnt kill my baby for nothing i dont care if i had 20 kids!!give it up for adoption dont kill gods kids!!

Piecey. Due May 13; 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 65159 posts
12th Jul '12

Shut up Nicole. Again read the effin rules