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Kylees Mama 1 child; Faribault, Minnesota 4193 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:" First of all, to let u know, the longer u wait to do it- the more expensive it is."



I don't know why the cost is an issue in this case. It cost more to have a child.



Hun, I'm sorry you have to go through this. I suggest counciling. Just remember you are not the only one who has done this, and you are not a bad person. If it's whats best for you, thats all that matter. Good luck.<3

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
9th Jul '12

Ladies you are in a protected forum. Please remember that before responding.




OP, I wish you the best of luck dear.

.MommaBug. 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Dayton, OH, United States 931 posts
9th Jul '12

These ladies are right, the further along u are, the more difficult it's going to be. I'm not tryin to be nasty but I had two abortions in the first trimester. The way I see it is if it can survive outside the womb then u shouldn't abort. You're getting close to that point...

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
Mone™ Due November 4 (girl); 33 kids; Washington, DC, United States 5483 posts
9th Jul '12

Good luck op...make sure it's 100 percent what you want. No one else. It may be rough but you can get through it.

Goal_Digger 1 child; Charlotte, NC, United States 41196 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
Mommy.x3 ❤ +1 Due March 20 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Windsor, Ontario 12949 posts
9th Jul '12

I'm so sorry that you have to make this choice I can't imagine.
Keep your chin up. & Maybe look into some sort of counselling afterwards.

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
9th Jul '12

Um i am aware. Yes it will be hard but i have to what is best for me and my future. Ugh just nevermind.

Super Mommy! Pasadena, CA, United States 13591 posts
9th Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daniee:</b>" I am pretty positive that's illegal to get an abortion after 12 weeks. I mean 19 weeks is a formed baby... ... [snip!] ... I feel... Not trying to be rude. But it is a public forum and I'm just expressing my opinion. This actually breaks my heart..."</blockquote>




she's looking for support with the decision she's made for herself. Not anything more or less.

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" Um i am aware. Yes it will be hard but i have to what is best for me and my future. Ugh just nevermind."


Don't worry about them sweetie. We're modding them if they say anything that's not supporting you. You are protected here. <3

.MommaBug. 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Dayton, OH, United States 931 posts
9th Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kylees Mama:</b>" I don't know why the cost is an issue in this case. It cost more to have a child. Hun, I'm sorry ... [snip!] ... only one who has done this, and you are not a bad person. If it's whats best for you, thats all that matter. Good luck.<3"</blockquote>



I'm jut saying...it could cost like a grand at this point

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
9th Jul '12

WOW nevermind. Holy crap. i just needed support now i am getting a ton of PM's on what a baby "does" at 19 weeks. I didn't ask for all that. I just was wondering if anyone else has been thru it,.

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:"


She said money doesn't matter. And you really shouldn't be worried about that. She needs support.

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
Goal_Digger 1 child; Charlotte, NC, United States 41196 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kylees Mama:</b>" I don't know why the cost is an issue in ... [snip!] ... you, thats all that matter. Good luck.<3"</blockquote> I'm jut saying...it could cost like a grand at this point"


Okay and its not your problem.the girl is on here for support not to talk about cost !