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user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" Um i am aware. Yes it will be hard but i have to what is best for me and my future. Ugh just nevermind."

It's ignorance. Ignore them.

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" WOW nevermind. Holy crap. i just needed support now i am getting a ton of PM's on what a baby "does" at 19 weeks. I didn't ask for all that. I just was wondering if anyone else has been thru it,."


Ignore them all. Block them. Delete them w/o reading. This is YOUR choice. Not theirs. There are a lot of ladies on here who will help you.

Bill Gluckman Texas 34149 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" WOW nevermind. Holy crap. i just needed support now i am getting a ton of PM's on what a baby "does" at 19 weeks. I didn't ask for all that. I just was wondering if anyone else has been thru it,."


Start blocking them. It's your choice to make, people should respect that

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" Um i am aware. Yes it will be hard but i have to what is best for me and my future. Ugh just nevermind."


Ignore those comments, they have no right to post in your thread and they will soon be removed.
You are most likely going to need support, and there are a lot of ladies here who can provide that for you, dont turn away because some people cant read rules.

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" I didn't even read the message. Thank you to those who are supportive i do appreciate it at this time"


You're welcome sweetie.

Kylees Mama 1 child; Faribault, Minnesota 4193 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" WOW nevermind. Holy crap. i just needed support now i am getting a ton of PM's on what a baby "does" at 19 weeks. I didn't ask for all that. I just was wondering if anyone else has been thru it,."


They are pieces of shit. No one does this easily. If you ever need to talk, you can PM me. I've never had to do this, but I have open ears and support your decision.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
9th Jul '12

OP, I wish you the best of luck!

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60938 posts
9th Jul '12

I'm so sorry. I will be thinking of you, and praying for you to find peace in this situation. ((hugs))

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
9th Jul '12

So sorry about this.. I know it's difficult for you. There are many on here who will be extremely understanding and helpful in all stages of the process either way you go. Best wishes..

Tanya-Michelle 'Wench' Mo Due October 28; 18 kids; United Kingdom 1407 posts
9th Jul '12

OP best of luck to u, im sure you're making the decision that is best all round, there are plenty of lovely women on bg for support anytime you need! ignore all the people with their judging, must be nice for them to have it easy eh? x

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
9th Jul '12

I wouldn't even aknowledge the people who are being negative. You need support at this time not criticism... I had a termination at 15 weeks 3 days which is a few weeks earlier than you but still a difficult experience. Here if you want a chat. Also, I was 15 when I had mine so can relate.

Shanaddy 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 882 posts
9th Jul '12

Best of luck OP.

Cain & Alexis' Mommy 34 kids; Iowa City, Iowa 212 posts
9th Jul '12

I wish you the best of luck. Hope that whoever is around you sees that you are doing this so you can become a better person, go to school, and make something of yourself. And when you're ready I'm sure you would be a great parent. But you are obviously mature for your age to realize that you cannot raise a child and you feel you need to focus on school more. It is super important so that you can have what you want, and have a stable career. Screw all those a*****e's that are being negative, you just need support and someone to talk to. I have never been through what you are about to go through, but I would go for counseling afterwards as well. they can't judge you. Just so you can talk and get stuff off your shoulders. Or There are some really amazing women on here who have been through the same thing or close to it and I'm sure they would be willing to help you get through it and cope. Best wishes hun!

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
9th Jul '12
Quoting marissssa.:" WOW nevermind. Holy crap. i just needed support now i am getting a ton of PM's on what a baby "does" at 19 weeks. I didn't ask for all that. I just was wondering if anyone else has been thru it,."


I'm sorry that people are so insensitive. Ignore them, they don't matter to you. I've been where you are (I was past 19 weeks) PM me if you ever need to talk.