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Cast Your Vote:

    • yes,they are already mothers -- Votes: 140
    • no,they have no idea what motherhood is yet -- Votes: 41
user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
15th May '08
Quoting Arly-R:
xilwolx 3 kids; Tulsa, OK, United States 20879 posts
15th May '08

Yes, because there are a lot of women that miscarried and mourned for their children before they were ever born.

Shellacopter 3 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 35 posts
15th May '08

I think everyone is different and should celebrate it if they feel like they are already mothers before delivery. There really is no harm.....

Cowgirl♥Up 1 child; Illinois 12563 posts
15th May '08

Why not?



When you're pregnant and housing a child in your body, how are you nota mom? From day one of conception, you're a mother, IMO.

Cowgirl♥Up 1 child; Illinois 12563 posts
15th May '08
Quoting Ms. Von Fate:
user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
15th May '08
Quoting Cowgirl♥Up:
Dante's momma 1 child; Netherlands 166 posts
16th May '08
Quoting Ms. Von Fate:
Cowgirl♥Up 1 child; Illinois 12563 posts
16th May '08
Quoting Ms. Von Fate:
Alyssa Ferguson Due December 4; Japan 1 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting *Jackie O*:" i am like that too kinda between!! i say yes we are moms but technically we haven't went threw the ... [snip!] ... went threw the labor(the hard part) of being a mom like the actual labor and delivery and the waking up at all hours etc etc"


I respect everyone's opinion but I disagree with you. I am 8 weeks pregnant and while that isn't far along at all, I've heard my babies heart beat and fell in love right then and there. The moment I found out I was pregnant I gave up smoking and drinking for my unborn child. I care for my child and I love my child, exactly what a mother does. I gave up the bad for the good, what a mother should do. No I haven't gone through the painful labor & delivery. I haven't endured the countless nights of no sleep, but I will. :D

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
26th Apr '13

I don't celebrate Mother's Day. I never expect anything on that day, nor do I want anything. But to answer your question. Yes, Sure she is a mother in my eyes.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
26th Apr '13

Holy zombie thread.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Cowgirl♥Up:" Hey now... then I clearly qualify! LOL"


same here but the hair cut lol

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 14998 posts
27th Apr '13
Quoting Consistently Inconsistent:" Holy zombie thread."


Serious necro.

Destinite 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 31297 posts
27th Apr '13

Sure, why not? Should parents who adopt not be considered parents because they didn't birth the child?
When I was pregnant I got flowers and a mommy to be card.
ETA: Holy old thread! lol

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
27th Apr '13
Quoting Destinite:" Sure, why not? Should parents who adopt not be considered parents because they didn't birth the child? When I was pregnant I got flowers and a mommy to be card. ETA: Holy old thread! lol"


WOW didn't realize it until you said something LOL