That girl Amber +2 2 kids; California 6981 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police shit is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"


yeah, and I'm sure this is one of those times. :roll:



feel free to put me on ignore if I annoy you so badly.

Libertarian ♥ 19 kids; San Antonio, Texas 17690 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police shit is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"


:!:



Seriously. If you all think she is fake THEN MOVE THE f**k ON. You have no proof and you just look like a*****es.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2015; 2 kids; Jesus, FC, Aruba 35557 posts
Jul 16th '12

Yikes. I think this would be more detrimental to the children than to you. Please don't separate them.

"The b**b" [HM] 2 kids; Kingman, Arizona 15719 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" !!! I know right? Im sick of it. "


Just ignore them. Seriously. It's stupid, don't give it attention. Arguing with them about it is a lose-lose situation.



If the person is real, it is taking away from her thread, if she is fake it is giving her exactly what she wants.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Amberchik78:" yeah, and I'm sure this is one of those times. :roll: feel free to put me on ignore if I annoy you so badly."

How bout you stop trying to look cool by being a drama hungry a*****e and f**king leave.

♥Manda♥ Sunnydale, CA, United States 29485 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" I would never ever be able to pick one. It'd be either I take em all or I give em all up. "


:!:



Not only is choosing horrible, but how would the other 2 feel knowing they werent 'good enough' to be 'the chosen one'



:( its a horrible situation but personally i would abort or adopt out all 3

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Jul 16th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-Lily:</b>" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police shit is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"</blockquote>




This. Faker police, f**k off. She said nothing fishy, she needs f**king advice.



OP, I can't help you. It'd be all or nothing for me. You're going to bond with all of,them, I doubt you'll be able to pick, i'm sorry :(



If you need any help with anything, feel free to message me. Don't pay attention to the faker police, we're not all that stupid.

Jenny&Boopy 3 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 9712 posts
Jul 16th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma~2~Mayleigh:</b>" It would be all for me. I feel that however many I fall pregnant with.. whether it be 8 or 1, that I was meant to parent each one, no matter how hard."</blockquote>




I say all or nothing. But honestly, in that situation I'd keep them all myself. I don't think there's anything wrong with adoption, but I couldn't do it at 18 with DS and I'm in a much better situation now.

ANT0911 18 kids; Oklahoma 9608 posts
Jul 16th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" How bout you stop trying to look cool by being a drama hungry a*****e and f**king leave. "</blockquote>




:!::!:



If she turns out to be fake oh f**king well. FFS though the OP is not much to work with except the fact she seems to need help.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Manda♥Bella:" :!: Not only is choosing horrible, but how would the other 2 feel knowing they werent 'good enough' ... [snip!] ... they werent 'good enough' to be 'the chosen one' :( its a horrible situation but personally i would abort or adopt out all 3"


I could never do it, never ever.
I can't imagine being in this situation.

Libertarian ♥ 19 kids; San Antonio, Texas 17690 posts
Jul 16th '12

I think that it's not horrible of her to separate them. I know that people think that triplets need to stay together, but I don't think that's the case.



I have twins and if I would have had twins again I would have only kept one. We could only handle one more. It's just like putting a singleton up for adoption. If 3 is too many then there is no shame in keeping what you can and adopting the rest out.



I would rather see a mother keep one and give it a great life, than struggle with 3. Financial problems contribute to divorce and depression, keeping all 3 could have a catastrophic effect on the OPs life.



I think it takes a strong woman to admit when she is taking on too much. Good on you OP for thinking of the children.

✌Nikki☀ 2 kids; Illinois 2658 posts
Jul 16th '12

Not trying to be mean but... I think I'd give them all up for adoption. There's no way I could just take home one baby.



My opinion? Either keep them all, or give them all up.

Jul 16th '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" just saw your dd, and its a little late for abortion. sorry. "


Um... never DDed? And this is my first post because I have been lurking while stewing over this information.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2015; 2 kids; Jesus, FC, Aruba 35557 posts
Jul 16th '12
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Beanz +2:</b>" Yikes. I think this would be more detrimental ... [snip!] ... This is what I was thinking about. If they find out when they're old,r how they'll feel. The ones that were put up."


I'm thinking of all of these stories I've heard where people feel that a part of them is missing, and it turns out they have a twin, etc. Whether they're true or not, I could never inflict that pain on my child. :cry:

user banned Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
Jul 16th '12

OP I'm sure you can get a lot of support with having triplets. To even save on cash you can do part or full time cloth diapering. see if parents, or siblings, aunts, grandparents can help you on a schedule.



I don't think splitting the babies up would be a good idea, and if you do split them up I'd adopt them all out.



This must be tough. I hope you figure out what's best for your family.